Ive known this guy since 6th gradee, and we have dated since then, a little affer last Christmas we were dating&i ended up screwing up andd left him for someone else which was a mistake. We finally started talking these past few weeks or so andd seeing&talking to him made me miss and want him back so much more, but unfortuantley he's dating someone now. I want him to be mine for Christmas again, what should I do?! Could there be any creative or cute ways to get him back?!
just talk to him and let him know you still have feelings for him. but after that, back off. let him decide who he wants to be with. don't force him into anything. its his decision.
Terrie answered Sunday December 12 2010, 11:15 am: Heyy!
If you've dated this guy since 6th grade and then you both separated, the chemistry you both have had with eachother doesn't just disappear like that! I'm sure he feels a little something for you deep down too. He might like this new girl hes dating, but a strong possibility is that he's trying to get over you. Sounds odd, but trust me on this. It may look like hes REALLY in to her, but deep down I'm sure you name keeps on popping up! You're not guaranteed to get him back for christmas, but hey! What's life without any risks,right?! All you have to do, is speak to him, face to face preferably. Tell him how you feel and let him know you made a mistake by leaving him and you've learned you're lesson and that as soon as you left him, you left a big piece of yourself with him. Also that you need him back and also say how you will completely understand if he wants to stay with his girlfriend and that you don't want to cause any fuss, you just wanted to let him know how you feel rather than avoiding it and wondering the rest of you're life how it would have been if you didn't take any action. I really truly wish you luck, and i hope i helped so don't worry about it! Good luck! [ Terrie's advice column | Ask Terrie A Question ]
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