|
I'm so confused.....
ok. I'll just tell the story. There's this guy in my health class, and everyday he would always look at me. Not just in health, either. In the hallway(s), and in lunch. Also, in health he would always give me these weird/cute/adorable faces. They were so cute! Anyways, I have this friend, let's call him jimmy (that's not his name, but it's risky to say his name) and he's also friends with mike (again, let's just call him that). Jimmy is VERY good with secrets, AND he's my friend, so I thought I'd tell him. I did. He said that he'd ask mike if he liked anybody, and (apparently) mike said he didnt. Later that day, I was talking to jimmy, and he told me that somehow mike had found out about it, and said that I was ugly and that he would never date me. So (of course, being me) I asked mike about it. Apparently, he didnt say that. I actually believe him more. He is a much nicer and more reliable guy, AND jimmy used to like me, so I thought he'd just be jealous or something. About an hour later (this was all on facebook, by the way) I got back on, and saw that Mike was still online. So I decided to talk to him about it. I told him that I was accusing him of anything, I just wanted to clear it all up. He said it was ok. So I told him I had to ask him something, and he said ok. I asked "how did you find out? Did I make it obvious, or did someone tell you?" he replied, "tell me what?" I again, asked "how did you know I liked you? Was it obvious, or did someone tell you?" he said, "i didnt" So apparently, jimmy had lied about everything. AND I basically just told mike I liked him. Wonderful. The thing of it is, even after he knew, he'd still look at me in health AND in the hallways. He'd also still make those cute faces. My friend told me (she would NOT lie about this) that he kept looking at me with a "longing" look (whatever that meant). I was talking to jimmy on facebook later that day, and he said "yeah, I asked him today, and he said he didnt like you." I didn't want to go through this again. Although this time, I AGAIN believed him, I still had my doubts considering he lied before. After about an hour, mike sent me something. I was so scared to open it, so I basically just sat there staring at the screen for about 5 minutes. (haha) After I decided to open it, he had said "i dont like you im sorry." the gotten off. I was like, "wtf? im so confused now!" I was planning on explaining to him exactly what i was thinking about all this, and turns out, he blocked me. Not only did he block me, but jimmy (my FRIEND) blocked me too. I didnt understand why, considering he was actually my friend. I was telling one of my other friends about this, and he said that maybe (just maybe) jimmy had gotten onto mike's facebook account (yeah, i doubt that). I just dont understand what/why he would bother to look at me CONSTANTLY or give me those weird looks. I know, he may just be trying to be my friend or something, but it doesnt make any sense. Especially that one day when my friend said he kept looking at me, (because I saw that too).
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I may be totally off on this....but it can't hurt. How good of friends are Mike and Jimmy? Because it seems to me, that maybe when Jimmy found out you like Mike, he got jealous. Then he tried to make it so that Mike didn't know, but because you told him on facebook, and IF they are very good friends mike might have told jimmy, then jimmy might have told mike, "hey i really like this girl" and mike (because it seems he likes you) could have said "i really do too" then both of them trying to not fight over you might have said "ok, I wont talk to her" and that's what might have happened. I've seen cases when good guy friends find out they like the same girl and then both decide to give her up as to not fight. Guys are not like girls, they try to avoid drama as much as possible. If they decided that they both wanted you but they cared about their friendship more, then this is probably why they both blocked you. HOWEVER, I am just speculating and making assumptions from what you've said, so like I said, this may be totally off.
Good Luck, message me if you have any more questions!
]
Wow, first I'd like to say this is a very long, complicated story :) Which leads me to my advice. It sounds to me like your guy friend ("Jimmy") might have a thing for you and is not being completely honest with you. Relying on others to play matchmaker is sometimes okay, but in this case I don't think that's going to work. My advice would be to totally eliminate the guy friend from the mix and let things take a natural progression. There are ways to let a guy know you like him. If you are really interested in this other guy send him some "longing, cute" looks back his way. Learn how to flirt because it's sounds like that's what "Mike" is doing with you. Resist the temptation to confide in "Jimmy" because it's gotten you nowhere so far. Good luck!
]
More Questions: |