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About kissing guys!
I am so nervous. A couple of days weeks ago this cute guy started to like me and then we started to go out. So far we have only kissed on the lips, and that was very easy. However the other day he started to try and kiss with his tongue. I had no clue what to do so I acted like I had to go. But I know the next time I see him hes going to want to do the same thing again. And I wasn't to! I just don't know how to. Can you help?
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First off, let me start by saying, your tale is so adorable. You almost can't buy simple innocence like that....
With that being said, seems to me that you're a newbie to the bases. 1st base... Kissing... (ah memories...) anyways, I could go on and say "It's all pretty easy".. But that's not exactly true. Learning to be comfortable (specifically and generally) is a process and it's NOT a school subject (predominantly because everyone is different...) However, in some way you have to visualize going through this process with your b/f, "IF" thats who you'd like to be your first french/tongue kiss to be with. Don't rush into it, but learn to enjoy it and it's importance at the same time.
Many would suggest that you practice on a pillow or kissing a girl friend and experiment that way. I fully believe, that you already have the techniques and movie scenes embedded in your head anyways... So when you're ready, go for it. If not, let him in on the secret that you're not an expert. (Don't "say" you're a newbie or beginner though...smh.) Only because, guys... eh... have a tendancy not to be great teachers as they are to being opened to new things. They go hand in hand....
Don't go too hard though, its a terrible, terrible, TERRIBLE thing to NOT know how to kiss properly. Even worse when you don't attempt or learn to. Don't be nervous either, you might just find that you may not like the way he kisses. So he has just as much invested as you do.
In the end... you're not as clueless as you believe.
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