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I'm ready to have sex.. but i don't have a boyfriend?!
I just got out of a relationship where we were planning on having sex. He had me looking forward to it, and now i have no one? I dont know what to do.. all i have is fingering myself. I enjoy it,. but i cant get a toy cause my mom finds everything.. helllp?!
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I waited till I was 18 and was so glad I did. I had a few friends that did it with random guys or a bf they had barely knew and they became the slutty/easy girls after that. So, even if you find a bf soon, I would recommend waiting till you're sure he's going to be there for you afterward. I remember what it was like wanting a toy when I was younger and I would find candles or some vegetables but you have to be very careful to make sure anything you use is very smooth. Anything that has a rough spot can cause a tear inside and do some major damage. If you have any other questions please feel free to ask me. Hope this helps and good luck.
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whatever you do... DONT hook up with a random guy.
A. you'd be using him
B. you'd feel guilty afterwards
C. would you really want to remember your first time with some random guy you dont even know?
D. don't you want it to be special? something memorable?
in my opinon, i say wait it out until you find the right guy. yeah you might be ready.. but that doesn't mean you have to do it right now. i'm ready to go to college right now but that doesn't mean i should leave in the middle of my senior year.. same thing with sex. you could be ready for it, but why would you do it if its not with a guy you're interested in?
its just sex.. you wont die if you dont do it. life goes on. there will still be a tomorrow. who cares if you cant do it right now. and trust me when i say this.. you will be so happy and grateful that you waited for the right guy. my best friend did it with a random guy and she cried for a month straight saying she wanted to kill herself because she felt so guilty for doing it and wished she could take it all back.
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