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should i tell him i like him
UtIm17 and I'm a junior in hs and there's his Guy who is constantly staring at me he started doing this since the beginning of the year and he doesn't only stare during English class he also stares while we are walking to class and he used to look away when he knew I caught him staring but now he makes eye contact and I think he was talking with his friend about me cause I saw him poining at me once But other than the. Staring there was this one time he played a joke on me and he was staring at me with his eyes wide open with a smile on his face he also has tried to bump into me once or twice when he could go a different way.my friends all say he likes me and say he's only too shy to talk to me and they want me to tell him I like him this Friday should I or should I not..........PS I think he tried talk to me once cause I heard some one yelling wait and footsteps be hind me and when I looked back. It wad him but with like a worried face
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okay, you have 3 options here:
1. get to know him better and then once you start getting closer with him and youre both comfrotable enough with eachother, tell him that you like him because it might make things less awkward and easier for you both.
2. tell him straight up on friday that you like him because whats the worse that could happen ? he could reject you, BUT hes not the only guy in the world, there are others out there.. and you seem like a cool girl, so if he doesnt feel the same way, hes stupid. but youll never know until you try and sometimes you just have to go out there and just be impulsive.. it seems like he actually likes you, so go for it :]
3. dont say anything at all. you could wait for him to tell you or you could just never let your feelings for him show and live with knowing that you COULD have said something to him, but didnt.
those are 3 options, just 3. in my oppinion, i think you should HIGHLY consider option 1 and 2. it sounds like he is interested in you.. so why not find out for sure ? :] youre 17, live it up while you can !
good luck, have fun, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. hope i helped ! xxo.
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do it :)
whats the risk..? he says he doesnt like you.. big deal. move on. rejection is part of life. people get rejected all the time- jobs, relationships, banks etc.
you're 17. you're gonna have WAYY bigger problems than this. Take baby steps and get the courage to tell him how you feel. you can't stay a little scary cat forever you know.. time to grow up. he's just a boy. he wont bite you or attack you i promise. unless he's been bitten by rabies but i doubt that. nothing bad will happen to you. yes, your feelings might get hurt.. but you have to learn how to deal with that. if you cant deal with something so small as this, how are you ever going to deal with bigger things in life?
the way i see it, theres a 50-50 shot he likes you or doesnt. don't you want to find out? instead of just sitting there like a duck and wondering..?? I would never want to sit there and wonder "what if i told him how i feel"
and hey, you never know.. he could just possibly like you too :) don't you want to find out and potentially be happy if he likes you too?? if he doesnt, move on. its just a guy. you can find other guys better than him and make sure that you don't get crushed my him. dont let his decision put you down. if he rejects you, you have to think- ok well whatever its just a guy. the world won't end. i wont die. life will go on.
good luck. inbox me if you have more questions.
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