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Reading His Signals
I recently began a new relationship. I met a guy towards the end of October, which I know isn't that long ago, and we are still seeing each other now.
Of course we went through the honeymoon phase and are kind of still in it at times, but we have started to get comfortable with each other so things have calmed down. We have a lot of things in common and we get along great. We rag on each other about the sports teams that we like but we like to watch the games together. Our personailties are different, I definitely talk a lot more and love to meet new people where as he is comfortable with his friends he has now.
In the beginning he sent me all kinds of messages about how much he liked me and spending time with me. He even would tell me how much he missed me when he was away (he's in the military and does a little bit of traveling and went to visit family recently). I have stayed at his house a few times, I even know where the key is to let myself in if I get there before him after work.
Here's my delimma. The nice messages that I used to get ALL the time have slowed down a bit (he's been a little busier lately). Last night when I was at his house, we watched TV and just talked a bit, from 4:45 until 10:00. We have had sex and the past time I stayed the night and last night, we didn't. I talked to him about it and he said he didn't think things had changed and that he hasn't changed the way he feels about me. He recently told me that he loves me and he tells me, at least once a day that he loves me.
Am I reading too far into things?
Is this just the end of the honeymoon phase and we are comfortable with each other?
Males (most of the time) are more blunt about things, so he would tell me if I was overstepping myboundries right (of if he didn't want me to stay at his house with him)?
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Sounds to me like the natural progression of a relationship. I wouldn't read too much into it. The honeymoon stage is just the first part, like an appetizer. The problem many people have is that they think that's supposed to be the whole thing! But real love takes time to grow and develop and has to do with a lot more than sex and physical attraction. As you start to relax and learn more about your bf, you'll find that what comes next is even better than the "butterflies", but don't get hung up on the honeymoon. Let it grow, let it breathe, you'll be pleasantly surprised.
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