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Love or leave?


Posted Friday January 10 2014, 3:43 am

I'm 14 f. My boyfriend is 17. We met 4 years ago. He moved in and we started dating. We've been on and off. I know it's not healthy. But last year in march he said he cheated on me and we broke up and 2 days later he got with some girl he knew I hated. They lasted 6 months and I tried to move on. I talked to so many guys and none of them could keep me from not being sad. It worked for a while but nothing, nobody could stop my heart break when I was alone or when It was night time. He was my first love. My first everything. In September we got back together but we only lasted 2 weeks then he left me again for the same girl I hate. I was furious. Him knowing what struggles I was going through and how I gave myself to him twice and he just doe...

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Is life really worth living?... Really??


Posted Friday January 10 2014, 3:31 am

OK well here goes i have been thinking. i know other peoples life are worse which by the way you never tell some one they will just kill them self for being weak trust me. So i am only 13 and i already hate my life actually it started a long time ago as late as 5th grade. Then a lot of shit happened and i bottle everything up i self harm and have thought of suicide my mom found out about the scratches on my arm and started acting like a bitch telling me i was a freak and she doesnt know Y I do it she didn't even ask. And others dont see it i am in sports i have some of the highest grades in my class i just have given up hope for any change and i see a future of nothing does it get better?? At all??

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Depression, Anxiety, Bipolar.


Posted Friday January 10 2014, 3:15 am

14/f.
I started high school  in August but I actually started about 2 weeks late because I was in Mexico. I live in California. My grandmother was my everything. I loved her so so much. I hadn't seen her in about 8 years. On July 4, my aunt called my mom to tell us that she was in the hospital. Devastated we said we'd go to Mexico if she got worse. July 6 she had surgery because something was going on with her kidney. She was getting better but July 8 everything went downhill. She got super bad. The next day my mom and I drove to Mexico. I had asked questions about this because I can't handle stuff like this. Long drives, and the fear of being too late and my grandmother passing away. I've never physically lost anyone like this. Abo...

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Do I function normally?


Posted Friday January 10 2014, 2:59 am

Hi, I'm a fourteen year old girl, and I currently hold a 3.0 in school(I am in high school.) It seems like everyone treats me different but I do admit..I have been told, I can be paranoid at times. I do have friends though, I'm good at making friends online, but in person, that is a whole different story. I am not good at communicating..I thought that may be the reason people treat me different. How can I improve my social skills? I go to my doctor every six months for check ups and the results are healthy! I know it may sound silly asking you this but do I function normally? Thank you in advance. (:

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Can I be pregnant?


Posted Friday January 10 2014, 2:43 am

I am a 15 year old girl and I am sexually active with my 17 year old boyfriend. I got my last period November 12. It lasted a week and after me and my boyfriend almost had sex. I decided not to because he didn't have a condom. But he did rub his penis on my vagina for a bit. I'm pretty sure his penis had pre cum on it. I read that you can still get pregnant even if you're a virgin (I'm a virgin btw) because you have a tiny hole in your hymen that allows your period to come out and sperm can also enter through there. I'm not sure if it's true, I just read it.  From there I haven't had my period. I'm irregular and if I'm stressing it can be even more late. I'm not sure if I am pregnant or it's cause I'm stressing? Can I be pregnant? I'm way ...

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Insecurities.


Posted Friday January 10 2014, 2:18 am

Okay I'm a female & I'm 14 turning 15 in a few months. Don't even start talking about my age cause I already know y'all are gonna be telling me I'm too young but I feel like I'm ready, so keep your hate to yourselves! My boyfriend is 17. We've been on and off a lot but lately things have been good. We both want to have sex. He's not a virgin but I am. We've done stuff before like fingering , hand jobs , blow jobs ( sorry to describe ) and whenever he does too deep with the fingering I usually bleed a bit. I feel like its because he's tearing my hymen a bit. Well we were going to have sex but I'm kind of scared to bleed a lot. He's gonna have a condom so I don't care if it goes on him but I don't wanna bleed a lot. Is there any way I won...

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need advice.. cant afford a lawyer at the moment..


Posted Friday January 10 2014, 12:40 am

alright.. so my husband is not my 3 1/2 year old daughters biological father.. but, he has been in her life since I was 4 months pregnant.. and her bio dad and I split up when I was 2 months pregnant with her.. he called for the first week or two after I left.. but after that.. nothing.. I got 2 text messages saying "to see how the baby is doing" and "nevermind" when I was 5 months pregnant.. after that when I was 7 and a half months along he got put in jail/prison for stat rape!! I have not heard from him and he has NEVER seen her.. I haven't even spoke to his family since she was 3 months old.. anyways my dilemma is that I am fixing to be getting her birth certificate.. and when I had her I never wrote her bio dads nam...

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trying to have another baby for about 8-9 months now...


Posted Friday January 10 2014, 12:33 am

ok so me and my husband have been trying to have another baby for the past 8-9 months now.. and I have a tilted uterus so therefore it makes it a little more harder for me to get pregnant.. its pretty frustrating and gets a little depressing.. anyways my question is that does anyone know what we could do/try to make conceiving a little more easier? and yes, we try different positions as well.. thank u in advance!!

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What's for dinner?


Posted Thursday January 9 2014, 10:05 pm

I just ate a slice of plain boiled liver, a yam and an orange for dinner. Is that weird?

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Why do people self harm?


Posted Thursday January 9 2014, 2:34 pm

I can't tell you how many times I read questions about people who are asking about their self harming. I don't get why people would this. And the worst part is they ask it in a very matter of fact way. Honestly, it makes me really upset when I read these things. I almost tear up

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need free php Job site script


Posted Thursday January 9 2014, 6:21 am

I have knowledge in PHP & mysql looking for php job site script, I know coding in php

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spotTing or period


Posted Thursday January 9 2014, 2:23 am

Okay so I told you guys a while ago that I think I'm pregnant. 15/F. They say if your pregnant you get spotting but I think I have my period. Yeasterday it started and I puttes on a pad. And when I went to bath around 20:30 it was full. Then I putted one °̩n when I was done and woke up this morining with it overflowing. Is this a period or spotting?

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"Pink pill" week


Posted Thursday January 9 2014, 2:14 am

I know the chances of getting pregnant on the week of pink pills for birth control pills are slim to none, but what if I forgot to take the pills for 3 days after I had sex? I'm also still on my period (obviously)...but I can't find any answers for missing pills on this particular week and I think it's already too late to take a plan b.
I'm sorry if this is a stupid question. I hate the pregnancy questions just as much as everyone else.

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Cheap lunches for my daughter for school


Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 11:32 pm

My daughter gets lunch from the school and she always complains about how disgusting the food is. She asked me to pack but I just dont have the money to spend. I was wondering if there was any ideas of super cheap lunch ideas or something like that. Thank you!

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Im inlove with my good friends ex!


Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 11:31 pm

I dont know what to do, im inlove with him i think about him all the time we text and call all the time and she has no idea.. i feel so guilty

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do I fancy my sisters baby father?


Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 7:17 pm

Hello I am 16 years of age. Im going to start slow as mmy story is quite complicated First of all my sisters boyfriend is 16 and my sister is 17 and they have a child on the way (bit too young)Her boyfreinds in prison for assult and I detest of him as the baby is nearly due and he hasnt done one thing to help my sister before he got locked up.. Anyway I know in my head that I do not like him (hates the word) but somehow he keeps on coming into my dreams like me and him having sex? I dont onow whether I have a concious or I actually love him.. My heads saying no I detest and really hate him while my dreams and heart are saying otherwise! I need to know is it my concious or not? ikno the dreams are wierd but is it what the future holds?



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Forgot info on grad school app.


Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 7:02 pm

I submitted an online application to a graduate program, and in a rush, forgot to add the info. from one of the colleges I previously attended (community college, where I took a couple classes). I added my undergraduate institution and other colleges, as well as uploaded transcripts as required.

Is there any way to contact admissions to have them add new information regarding that college to my application, though my application was already submitted?

Thank you


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can weed usage lead to stronger drugs


Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 6:24 pm

Hi
im 17 years of age and I smoke marijuana (on accasions e.g. Partys and christams) and my mom has notice my drug usage.. Im not a violent person when I smoke it and I dont do it often.. Anyway my mom said it can lead to the use of cocaine and stronger drugs like mcat but I dont think it does! Does it always lead to stronger drugs? Does it depend on you state of mind (crave stronger side effects)? Or do people start stronger drugs just because they have been offered some? Ive been smoking for a year and a half and I havnt got craves for stronger drugs?is my mom right or just concerned?

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no periods anymore after infection


Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 5:57 pm

Hi there I am a 15 year old female and I was having my periods frequently at the end of each month for about a year but recently in November 2013 I developed a water infection which has now gone and since then .. I am a virgin so it cannot be sexually transmitted that is corsing it I would be very gratefull if anyone can give me advice before I go and see the doctor any advice will be very helpful thank you

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Mortgage / Retirement dilemma


Posted Wednesday January 8 2014, 4:58 pm

My husband and I are in our mid-50’s and live in Battle Ground outside of Vancouver, WA. 6 years ago we became empty nesters. We decided to pursue our dream of living in the country and purchased 7 ½ acres with a dilapidated 20 year old mobile home on the property for $360,000 with 10% down. The plan was to live in the mobile home for a year or so until we could get money together to build a home. Unfortunately this was the worst possible timing. The real estate market crashed almost immediately after we purchased this property and home values plummeted, leaving us $100,000 upside down within months. Many of our friends encouraged us to “walk away” and allow the bank to foreclose since we will most likely never recover our inve...

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