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How to start dating in college???
Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 3:44 am
Ok, so I am 19 and a freshman in college. Throughout high school, I wasn't able to do to much dating. I was pretty sheltered. I was able to date this one guy, it was a complete mess, only because we talked off and on since my sophomore year of high school and it never got serious. Any way, now that I am in college, I feel inexperienced compared to most people. I would really like to date but I haven't met anyone.Plus I think I'm having some issues too, it's like Every time I meet a guy, I feel almost horny or shy, like I want this instant connection and i feel ashamed about that part. I just think that If i started to date a little and get use to guys then i wouldn't have that type of reaction. So how do I date?
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my bf is having mixed emotions with me?
Posted Thursday January 6 2011, 12:11 am
18/f & 17/m; we've been together for almost two months; im in love with him even before we got together; we talked on and off; i knew he was guna be something hard to forget. we rarely agrue; we always joke around and have a good time; and our physical connection is amazing; well today he said he was working out, and he randomly starting having mixed emotions about him missing his ex marissa that he was with for a year and six months before we got together; she left him and hurt him both times they broke up; he said he knows its not going to work;
he's having mixed emotions, and said that he relaly loves me, but he thinks he rushed into a relatioshiop. He says he doens't know what he wants, but he knows if we break up, he...
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Is He a Cheater?
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 11:15 pm
so ive been dating this guy for about two weeks now but weve been talking for a month or two before we got together. I dont trust him at all and i dont know if im just paranoid or i should follow my gut.he wont check his phone when im around even when someone is blowing it up. and sometimes it will take him a few hours to text me back. the other day i looked at his phone while he was sleeping, now i didnt go through the messages i just wanted to see who had been texting him and three or four of them were girls none of which i knew..he says he wouldnt cheat on me cuz hes been cheated on but ive heard from peoplee that hes a man whore. should i trust him? orr what?
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Need a Visa to go see my Boyfriend
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 9:26 pm
Well I'm going to America in March and obviously need a Visa. I'm going to apply for a Tourist visa, but I don't know how much it costs. Does anyone know? I'm from Australia by the way so I don't know if the prices on the Australian government website are for visas COMING to australia or for GOING to another country :s And how long before leaving do I have to apply(how long does it take to recieve it?) My plane is booked for March 9..
I've never travelled overseas before so that explains my clueless mind XD
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How can i get a guy to talk to me?
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 8:24 pm
I don't mean to sound conceited but I've been told I'm really attractive. When I go snowboarding guys always notice me because I'm good, I've done tours and I can do the terrain park and everything. Again, I promise I don't mean to sound cocky, but its the truh. I always catch guys staring at me and I'm always afraid to like look back I just give a quick glance and look away I guess I'm shy but how can I get them to approach me? I guess I just need a confidence booster lol. Thanks.
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I cheated and I regret it now.
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 7:40 pm
Ok so I am going to make a long story short 13/F So last year I had a sweet caring boyfriend but I started falling for another guy and me and him spent all of our time together even tho he had a gf and i had a bf, well my boygfriend saw us together all the time and broke up with me. I thought it was fine at first because me and the other guy spent all summer together and then I was sure he liked me so I finaly went ahead and told him i liked him and he liked me too. Well everything went good for about two weeks (even tho he never asked me out)I thought he was because he said I don't know and I thought he'd just think about it because I mean he likes me right? well like I said it was great for about two weeks everyone knew we liked each oth...
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I'm a baby..
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 6:47 pm
I'm a baby and can't tell the girl that I like, that I like her. That's because I'm a girl, and have never been with a girl or liked a girl in this way. Nobody knows, so I'm so scared of somebody finding out. So, I wrote her a message on Facebook explaining my situation. I made a fake account and told her that I didn't want to tell her who I was yet, because I needed to know how she felt about the whole situation. My question is though, is there any way she could find out it's me. I mean, I know she couldn't just because we never talk at school- she knows who I am but our school is HUGE. I'm just wondering if there's any way on Facebook she could find out who I am?
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Should I come back... We ran away together...
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 4:54 pm
its me again and me and my girlfriend mary have made it official were now running away from all the crap our parents give us and we will be able to be together . right now were at a hotel my friends brother rented . its going great and we had sex only 1 time . but is this right? help me please
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I pee when she fingers me
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 2:11 pm
ok everytime my gf fingers me she has long fingers lol,i pee all over the place, it doesnt feel like i need to pee it just feels really good but pee alays comes out, weve smelled it and it smells like pee. what is the problem bc its very annoying!
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should i just give up?
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 9:04 am
im 18/f hes 19/m
ok so i sort of have this thing for a guy, he's the lead singer of a local band, in which two of their shows i have attended. both times however the lead singer was taken and i was to shy to approach him. We've been talking over the net and what not for almost a year now, even though we haven't met each other properly. He is so much like me it scares me. I used to talk to him heaps even when he had a girlfriend (not overstepping my boundaries of course) and one night, he told me everything that no one else even knew about him. Thats the moment i started really falling for him. anyway i tried to forget these feelings due to him already having a girlfriend. Conveniently enough for me, him and his girlfriend bro...
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Boyfriend is too clingy...
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 1:44 am
I'm a sophomore in high school and my new-ish (3 mos.) boyfriend is kind of starting to drive me nuts. I really, REALLY like him, but he texts me about a million times a day and he asks me every. single. day. if I want to hang out with him. Like I said, I definitely like him, but I don't want to spend every waking minute with him and I'm running out of excuses...Help much appreciated :)
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Telling parents about boyfriend?
Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 1:39 am
Hey there. I'm fifteen/f and my boyfriend is 16. Our two month anniversary was something like 2 days ago, he's awesome, cute, etc. but he's my first boyfriend and I have no idea how to approach the topic with my parents. I'm pretty sure that I'm allowed to date, even though we don't have any concrete "rules", but I'm just petrified to broach the subject with my parents. I'm really close with my parents, we talk about common interests and stuff, but not really about personal stuff and I'm sure telling them would be really awkward. I'm just afraid they'll tease me (they will) and that they'll want to meet him and embarrass me and such and such. I'm just worried that when I tell them they'll (especially my mom) be really hurt that I ...
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confused feelings
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 11:30 pm
i am a girl and i am 14 i have a boyfriend but i also have a friend and its a girl who i like a lot but i am in love with my boyfreind does that make me bisexul ?
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What can I do about his bad breath?
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 9:19 pm
20-f
I recently just started talking to this guy ...well about 2 months ago. He is very nice, respectful and genuine but one thing that I can't get over is every time I see him he has bad breath :( I hate getting close to him or even cuddling with him because of his breath it makes me want to gag, sometimes I hold my breath so I don't have to smell it...it's so sad. He wanted to make out with me and I was freaking out because he had bad breath. We started making out and I was chewing gum and he was like "can I have your gum?" so while we were making out he ended up getting my gum that was in my mouth and oh my gosh did it smell so much better then! I don't know what to do though! I can't tell him he has bad breath, ...
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Does he love me or the sex I give him?
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 9:14 pm
how do i know that my partner love me for me and not my sex?
im 15 years of age ,and im a female
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I need advise because i am confused, what does he want?!
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 7:03 pm
Hi, i am a Women, 16 and from the Netherland.
i met this guy and i realy like him.
one week later he asked me to watch a movie and we kissed. day after that the gossip at our work started. that we had sex and i made a fuss about it. he told me not to and let them talk. but then at work he started ignoring me and i got confused. after work when everyone left he said that he just wanted to be friends and i got realy confused. i cried for a few days because i got realy attached to him and i didn't understand it. i still don't.
Still we are watching movies together every weekend and we fool around, poke eachother and hug. A few times he made very clear he wanted to kiss me but i can't get it right in my head.
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he said a lot of hurtful things but now i'm the whore
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 6:48 pm
i was talking to a guy for about 5 months, let's call him Oscar. in that time i lost my virginity to him, i thought it brought us closer by the way we were around one another. he told me he loved me. about two weeks ago i find out from a mutual friend that he's been saying he's "done" with me multiple times since the first time we had intercourse. she said it doesn't sound like he means it since he always talks good about me to other people. he doesn't know i know about the "done" part. he was acting like a jerk that whole week and then he asked me if we can hang out because it's been a while since we've done it, i obviously said no (it was after i found out what he said) and then i noticed one of his friends started co...
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Is it bad that I didn't tell him what happened??
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 2:32 pm
I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. So the other night I was at a party (a little tipsy, definitely not drunk) a guy (junior, 17) kept trying to give me drinks but this guy has always been really creepy so I was avoiding him all night. Long story short, he wouldn't leave me alone, followed me to the bathroom and basically attacked me. Trying to kiss me and feel me up but I was able to get out of the bathroom and I ran outside. Almost everyone at the party was drinking so I called this guy I've kind of been dating (junior, 17) who wasn't feeling well and didn't go to the party. I told him I needed him to come get mr he asked why but I said I just needed him to come and he came to pick me up. Is it bad that I didn't tell him what happene...
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I Get Insecure In Relationships
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 1:13 pm
I'm a 19 year old girl and I have this problem with feeling insecure in relationships, which I know has danger of affecting my relationship with my current boyfriend whose 24. We've been dating for a month and I feel like we click, I feel rather comfortable with him, and he's just a great guy, would be a wonderful friend if we end up not working out together in a relationship. I'm just really glad that he's in my life.
I have this problem with relationships though, I'm not very confident in them. I'm just afraid of getting hurt, and I always think the worse that the person that I'm with is going to hurt me. It's not really a self confidence issue, I think I'm very attractive and I know that others find me attractive. I love m...
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He didnt call/txt for the weekend of new years
Posted Tuesday January 4 2011, 1:04 pm
Okay so I met this guy we were kicking it hung out a few times, I slept over everytime.. I slept with him too early yes(like the second sleepover)but we were both adamant that this was out of character. so we continue to talk/txt he told me he had no plans for new years that he'd hang with me. so i had an offer to go to Vegas but didnt want this cutie to be alone so I didnt go. New Years eve rolls around and he has plans. SMH okay, its not like hes my man but i thought there was a mild understanding. So that was that we tell eachother be safe and have fun...he didnt call or write all weekend (NYE Was a friday) then I write him on sunday like hope you had a good new years...to no avail. He texts me monday night like how are you yada yada...D...
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