Question Posted Wednesday January 5 2011, 11:15 pm
so ive been dating this guy for about two weeks now but weve been talking for a month or two before we got together. I dont trust him at all and i dont know if im just paranoid or i should follow my gut.he wont check his phone when im around even when someone is blowing it up. and sometimes it will take him a few hours to text me back. the other day i looked at his phone while he was sleeping, now i didnt go through the messages i just wanted to see who had been texting him and three or four of them were girls none of which i knew..he says he wouldnt cheat on me cuz hes been cheated on but ive heard from peoplee that hes a man whore. should i trust him? orr what?
julie75 answered Thursday January 6 2011, 7:27 am: Sorry sweetie but it's time to cut your losses and let this guy go. He's been at this game for a while and knows how to play you. Find someone that you can trust. Hope thiss helps and good luck, [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
Xui answered Thursday January 6 2011, 2:41 am: If you don't trust your boyfriend then why are you with him? Trust is 99% of a relationship and without it you can kiss your relationship goodbye.
If you are suspicious, Then there may be a damn good reason why you are. Let me point out a few "red flags" to the cheating game.
1. Does your boyfriend not seem interested in you and what you talk about?
2. Does he seem suspicious, Making up excuses? Hiding things?
3. Does he shut his phone off around you? Ignoring phone calls? Blow you off on a daily basis?
If so, Well then he is not worth your time. Should you be suspicious of the text messages? ..Guys are allowed to have friends that are females but if you really want to get the dirt on him question him about it. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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