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I cheated and I regret it now.
Ok so I am going to make a long story short 13/F So last year I had a sweet caring boyfriend but I started falling for another guy and me and him spent all of our time together even tho he had a gf and i had a bf, well my boygfriend saw us together all the time and broke up with me. I thought it was fine at first because me and the other guy spent all summer together and then I was sure he liked me so I finaly went ahead and told him i liked him and he liked me too. Well everything went good for about two weeks (even tho he never asked me out)I thought he was because he said I don't know and I thought he'd just think about it because I mean he likes me right? well like I said it was great for about two weeks everyone knew we liked each other and it felt good then he got mixed up with the popular girls and forgot about me and litteraly broke my heart I loved him more than anyone I cried myself to sleep so many nights and now he don't talk to me anymore and everything is messed up and I don't even have my boyfriend anymore and he is such a sweet guy he still liked me but he broke up with me so I could be with the other guy now seriously he woulda had to care alot about me we've stayed best friends since and told everything to each other and everynight before we stop talking we always say love you bye...I now I just regret it like he coulda been my first kiss and everything but I gave it up for something I thought was gonna be great but it didn't turn out so great. So I mean what do I do, also do you think I could get him back He is really sweet and different from most guys please help!!! and sorry I know it isn't short like I said haha Pleaseeee give me answers!!(:
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Girl I know exactly how you feel. But why did you cheat on your boyfriend if he was so sweet and caring to you? I wouldn't have done that in the first place. I would have stayed with him if he was a good boyfriend.
But what you should have done was to not talk to this other guy because that's where it caused you this huge mess. I almost hooked up with my ex in the summer when I had a boyfriend but I realized that it wasn't a good idea because he would treat me like this guy did to you. What you need to do it cut contact with this dude. Because your boyfriend is a good person for letting you be with the other guy. I don't know if he will take you back though because what you did to him.
You should go back to your boyfriend though and apologize for what you did. He deserves it more than anything. Don't be with the other guy because you don't need to that's just selfish.
Everyone makes mistakes. So don't worry about it. You realized what you got and it wasn't what you wanted. So you need to fix your situation the hard way. Go back to your old boyfriend and make it up. It will be hard but that's kinda what you need to do right now. Good luck and hope it works out :)
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Don't worry. It seems hard now but you are young, almost too young to be having problems like this. I know right now it seems like the world is over but soon you will be okay. Just find things to occupy your time and try not to think about him. Hang out with your girlfriend and keep productive!!!! It's the best way to get over someone! Also you dont want to be with someone like that. If did that to his girlfriend then chances are he will do it to you. So if anything he probably saved you from an even bigger heartbreak! Smile. Life is too short to be upset over a guy.
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