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He didnt call/txt for the weekend of new years
Okay so I met this guy we were kicking it hung out a few times, I slept over everytime.. I slept with him too early yes(like the second sleepover)but we were both adamant that this was out of character. so we continue to talk/txt he told me he had no plans for new years that he'd hang with me. so i had an offer to go to Vegas but didnt want this cutie to be alone so I didnt go. New Years eve rolls around and he has plans. SMH okay, its not like hes my man but i thought there was a mild understanding. So that was that we tell eachother be safe and have fun...he didnt call or write all weekend (NYE Was a friday) then I write him on sunday like hope you had a good new years...to no avail. He texts me monday night like how are you yada yada...Do i write back? If so when? I want him to chase me but not feel like i dont like him...
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I agree with the person below. Don't worry about a time to write back because it does seem like he's into you. It is true that if you are busy doing other things and is not available to talk and hang out all the time, he'll probably chase you, unless you are never able to talk to him, ect.
So next time something comes around, don't wait around for a guy. You guys aren't officially together so you two aren't committed to each other.
So yeah, talk to him. He has taken the time to talk to you and he was probably just busy over New Years. Good luck!
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You're overreacting.
You should have gone to Vegas with your friends. If you didn't have any specific plans with him, you shouldn't have assumed you'd be doing something together. It's much more attractive when a girl does her own thing and makes plans without sitting around for a guy to call her.
So he didn't text you for a couple of days? Big deal. He was busy with his friends, you should have been busy with yours. He has texted you now and clearly has no idea he's upset you. Sure, text him back. Don't play stupid games and wait a certain amount of time because it never works. If he's into you, he's into you. If you want him to chase you then stop making yourself constantly available in case he wants to do something.
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