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What is the reason he does this?
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 1:48 pm
my ex and I have been talking on and off for awhile, and it seems like when we don't talk he stalks me, what I don't understand is that he has my number, why can't he just call or text me instead of showing up unannounced where ever I am... it's becoming really strange and it's not a coincidence because it has happened more than 3 times... what I don't get is that he is the one who stops talking to me or says that it's not working out right now, but then he shows up where I am, can somebody please give me a good explanation as to why you think he does this?
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Posted Monday January 17 2011, 10:32 am
19/f
I've been having a lot of personal issues lately. When I was 18, I moved out of my house, and now that I am almost 20, I have moved back in with my dad. A lot of things have been happening that made me decide to move back here, and it was a really hard to decision that ultimately ended my relationship with my boyfriend. Anyways, we have been broken up for 2 weeks (maybe less, I forget because I'm in a fog) and he already likes someone else. I am fine with him having friends and doing what he needs to to get over our break-up because it was definitely a shock to him, but it hurts my feelings as well. 2 weeks ago he told me he loved me and wanted to try and work this out, and now all of a sudden he likes another girl. Am I...
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How can I stop getting 'wet' when me and my bf dry hump? It's embarassing
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 3:42 am
So recently my boyfriend and I have been 'exploring' I guess you could say and like if were lying on a bed or just standing and full on kissing and picking up and I would get ' wet' downstairs and can I stop that? Then we were on the bed and had dry sex ( clothes on) and I would get wet and it gets annoying what can I do?! Thanks f/15
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what should i say?
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 12:53 am
So i finally got the guts to message the guy I like and we got past the hey whats up good, how ya doin great great part. but now i don't know what to saay. it's going good so far i got a few smileys haha but what do i say next? i don't want to end it obviously haha. thanks.
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Well ...
Posted Monday January 17 2011, 12:45 am
I told him in a short way that i needed to know how he felt .. He told me he never wants a relationship , and to drop the feelings i have for him ... So i acted very quite the last time i seen him and like he looked upset and sad about something .. and than now hes wanting to see me .. Ugh what should i do ?
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marriage life.. help me..
Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 10:25 pm
I really love my husband but i keep having these thoughts what it would be like with out him we have a lot of problems and then again i feel like i do not have a good enough reason to leave him. our problems are i feel he yells at my son (his step son) to often and over stupid stuff if i correct him my husband throws a fit saying you are always telling him the oppisite, he is constatly trading and selling dogs, he hasnt had a job longer than a week since i have known him, his last real job was in like 2008 sometime, around the house i can not get him to do anything, if i ask him to do anything its days before he will do it and i ask him why its not done he says why do i have to jump up and do it. if i start to do it then hell get up. we had...
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Friend flirting with ex
Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 6:43 pm
I'm a girl. I dated this guy for a month and then hey broke up with me for some other girl. He also did this to the girl he broke up with me for. Recently my friend and him have been going to the movies and hanging out and flirting. It really hurts and I just got over him after 4 months. He will not talk to me? She's not really my friend I acctually don't really like her she gets annoying. I deleted his number and deleted him off facebook because I could not stand him writing about her . I also deleted his number. What should I do?
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confused about love: what are the symptoms?
Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 6:07 pm
I am 18/f. I have been through a lot with guys. I am so confused about what love is. My mother tells me that I am "in love with love" based on my behavior, but I hope this is not the case.
1. Infatuation: When I was 14, I was totally infatuated with this guy, I'll call him Matt. It was what I would like to call love at first sight. He wasn't interested in me as a person; he was just interested in me sexually. I portrayed myself in a sexual way to him because I wanted him to like me, and that's all he ever wanted to talk to me about. I never let him do anything with me (other than talk about it,) though. Let's just say I learned my lesson about guys and sex, but I don't think I've ever felt as strongly for a guy as ...
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did I make a huge mistake?
Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 4:59 pm
I have been seeing this guy for about a year. It all started as a drunk hook up with him, an acquaintance back then, and after that we started seeing each other more and more, until we became best friends and developed feelings for each other. I have had a rough year and he has stuck by me through it all. During the summer, I wanted to start a relationship. I told him that I didn't want to just be friends with benefits anymore, I wanted to take the next step and make it official. He was hesitant, but he agreed. We were official for three months. During that time we fought a lot, so we decided to take a break because it seemed like things were better when we weren't officially together. He told me that the reason he agreed to a relationship ...
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How do I tell him?!?
Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 12:12 pm
13, female
So there's a guy... He's 16 and he doesn't have a girlfriend. I think he's really cute. We see eachother at parties and there was a party yesterday, and of course there was music, so we danced together to bachata. It was nice, but I guess I should've talked to him more while we were so close together. It could've been the perfect time to talk to him.(NOTE: he doesn't make fun of me or anything like that.) One thing I don't get is that he flirts with me once in a while even though he doesn't have feelings for me.
Anyways, I know he doesn't like me, but I really want to tell him that I like him, just so he knows and so I don't have to be so sneaky all the time. Should I tell him? How do I tell him?
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are we to young for love?
Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 10:32 am
Me and my boyfriend have been friends since 3rd grade and we started dating since 8th grade we are about to graduate high school and he wants to get married. We both have refused to have sex with each other because we do not wanna risk are relationship with a baby . I really don't know what's best for him and for us . if you were me and you didn't Want anyone else what would you do .
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Love him, but not completely happy with him
Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 1:06 am
I've been seeing this guy for about a year. I care about him a lot, and he feels the same about me. However, he is a little sexist, and pretty self-centered in bed.
We are exclusive, and dated for about 3 months but are currently on a break (still exclusive!) because we fought so much and titles just stress him out and make him feel obligated (and I must say I'm happier being what we are now than when we are in a relationship). But it still bugs me because I feel I'm not good enough for him, but he still calls me his girl. He knows it bugs me, but he doesn't like talking about it.
Also, he has kind of sexist views, he asks me to cook and clean, although I only do the cooking part every once in a while and he us...
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my ex cant get out of my life
Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 12:42 am
my ex boyfriend never leaves me alone. he asks me all the time if i want to hang out with him tonight and i said yes in the past. and he just wanted to make out with me and have sex. he never talks to me everyday. the only time he talks to me is when he wants to hang out with me and that's usually at night. it's really pissing me off. i tried acting interested in him and said yes. and talked to him a lot so he would back off. it was really boring talking to him and i was really not even interested in doing this but i had to get him out of my life. i got so bored that i eventually just ignored him for a couple weeks. then he comes back and pursues me and asks the same question "do you want to hang out?" the problem is im in love wi...
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Should you tell your bf that ur a virgin??
Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 12:20 am
Should. You tell your bf that ur a virgin?? How do you knw when ur cherry is poped
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How do i make my boyfriend pay more attention to me?
Posted Saturday January 15 2011, 9:44 pm
My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. He always would rather play games and hang out with his friends with me. But yet when im not around he goes out of his way to hang out with other girls and then says there just teases so i have nothing to worry about. What does he mean by their just TEASES???? And how do i get him to be more interested in me then them?? All you guys out there plz give me your insights. thankyou
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Is it (love) really worth it?
Posted Saturday January 15 2011, 5:36 pm
Is love worth fighting for. Its just things are really tense right now and I'm not sure if I should go through all the stress for this or if I should just give it time and let things settle down. Opinions???
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wierded out!!
Posted Saturday January 15 2011, 12:07 pm
Ok sp this nerd at my school likes me his friend told me and hes in every class of mine, and he stares at me all the time! he is wierd I don't mean to sound me but fat and red cheeks little wierd round glasses and he crossed his legs in his chair like a girl also he crys all the time! well he just gets on my nerves staring litteraly all the time and I can't help it I know its mean but I always look at him and roll my eyes then tell my friends that he likes me and stuff and I am always huffing and rolling my eyes at him what do I do he is such a wierdo!!:( I hate saying that but I can't help it! a lot of times to he smiles at me when I am not looking and my friends tell me when he does! but gosh he is so annoyingggg please help! Thanks! :D
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heartbreak? advice to get over?
Posted Saturday January 15 2011, 1:03 am
I was with my ex for two months tomorrow; and he broke up with me yesterday; he doesn't have a valid reason. All he says is he doesn't feel as strong for me, as I do for him, adn he doesn't think it will work out.
We are always happy around each other; he said when things are great, they are really great; but when there bad, they are really bad. We've had two major fights, about his ex Marissa, and thats cause he did stuff he shouldn't have.
It just hurts so bad; I try hangin with friends to get my mind off of it, but it doesn't work. Last night, I couldn't let my mom leave me, I didn't want ot be alone, so i slept with her; it just seems like its getting worse and worse. All I do is cry.
btw, 18 femalee.
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I miss having a boyfriend
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 11:58 pm
i am 18 yeras old now and i am not allowed yet to have a boyfriend until i finish college. when i was 17 years old, i got a boyfriend even though my parents are against with it. i just tried whats the feeling of having a boyfriend and did not really loved a guy. Now, we are already separated.
I miss someone cares for me. I miss someone i can confide to when i have a problem. i miss someone that is always there for me. i miss someone protects me and every things that a good guy do to his girlfriend. i miss these things! i wonder why i feel that way. whats the problem with me?
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Insecure with my boyfriend. He's cheated on me.
Posted Friday January 14 2011, 11:15 pm
My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months. We haven't done too much together because I'm really scared to. I always hold back whenever I'm with him because sometimes I feel like I'll get too attached to him and we'll never last. My parents feel that having a boyfriend now isn't right for me. I know it's not what they think but I've always had their approval for almost anything and having a boyfriend is pretty serious for me. I wish they knew, but they obviously can't and I feel really bad. Also, my parents are moving four hours away, and eventually, I'll have to as well, just not right now. Also, he's cheated on me before and I seriously can't stand that girl or any other girl around him. I've also caught him telling a few whit...
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