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wierded out!!
Ok sp this nerd at my school likes me his friend told me and hes in every class of mine, and he stares at me all the time! he is wierd I don't mean to sound me but fat and red cheeks little wierd round glasses and he crossed his legs in his chair like a girl also he crys all the time! well he just gets on my nerves staring litteraly all the time and I can't help it I know its mean but I always look at him and roll my eyes then tell my friends that he likes me and stuff and I am always huffing and rolling my eyes at him what do I do he is such a wierdo!!:( I hate saying that but I can't help it! a lot of times to he smiles at me when I am not looking and my friends tell me when he does! but gosh he is so annoyingggg please help! Thanks! :D
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I can't believe nobody has said this, but it needs saying.
What you're doing basically amounts to bullying.
Be nice to the poor guy. We can't all be thin, attractive, socially graceful or well... normal. I was the nerdiest kid in my class from grades 2-6, and not much higher up the social hierarchy from then on, so I know what it's like from his end.
Sure, he stares and smiles at you. Maybe he just thinks you're pretty and knows that you'll never talk to him. Maybe he's hoping that if he's friendly towards you, then you'll take notice of him. He's not doing this to weird you out, he's doing it because he doesn't know any better.
So when you roll your eyes, huff, spread rumours about him and call him annoying, that's mean. Why not try shooting a smile back? I can guarantee he'd be over the moon, and it'll make you look like a much nicer person. Who knows? He might even be a pretty decent guy once you get past the weirdness. Enemies are useless. They don't serve any purpose other than to upset you. Allies are always useful, no matter where in the social hierarchy they lie.
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Pretend like hes not even there. Just focus on your classes and your friends. The more you look and see him staring the more annoyed you will get with this nerd. He's probably really shy and nervous to come up and talk to you because he thinks your pretty or something. Be glad he doesn't talk to you and annoy you because that will only make things worse for you. He will have to stop sometime and if he doesn't ask your teacher what you should do. Maybe she can switch your guys seats up so he's looking at someone else. Teachers are very helpful with these kinds of things so don't be afraid to ask them. Or try talking to your counselor for more help. Everything should be alright just don't worry about it!
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I think you need to tell him in the nicest way
possible that you don't like him and aren't interested in him there's no need to be mean about
it but make sure he gets the hint and takes you
seriously by you not confronting him and just huffing or rolling your eyes your avoiding him and that isn't solving the problem your allowing him to think that you like him but by you telling him yourself your ending the problem and making sure
it's known to him that you don't like him so i think
you should confront him get it over with and then move on :)
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i know it's probably frustrating, but just ignore him. if you don't talk to him or acknowledge him, he'll eventually go away and stop.
and if THAT approach doesnt work, tell his friend to tell him that you dont like him and that you want to be left alone.. or you could just go up to the "nerd" yourself and tell him how you feel.
either way, just try to not to give him any of your attention.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
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