I told him in a short way that i needed to know how he felt .. He told me he never wants a relationship , and to drop the feelings i have for him ... So i acted very quite the last time i seen him and like he looked upset and sad about something .. and than now hes wanting to see me .. Ugh what should i do ?
gr8fruit answered Monday January 17 2011, 2:25 pm: Hi,
I think you should see him and talk to him about this. He told you honestly how he felt, then after you probably came off as having some resentment towards him so he felt bad. He wants to see you (likely) because he knows you have feelings for him and he wants to make things better between the two of you. Tell him that you only want to be in a realtionship if he wants to. Otherwise this isn't going to work out for the both of you. Find out how he is feeling now and go from there. He may of had a change of heart <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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