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Is it (love) really worth it?
Is love worth fighting for. Its just things are really tense right now and I'm not sure if I should go through all the stress for this or if I should just give it time and let things settle down. Opinions???
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I fought on and off for a little over 4 years for my last ex. [fought for love.. not like, actual fighting, even though that did happen too]
but the thing was, sometimes he fought too, but for the majority of the time, i did.. for the both of us.
and things were really tense with us and i honestly wish i didnt fight for love with him. you shouldnt HAVE to fight for it.. the person who truly loves you or who you truly love wont put up a fight or make it harder for you both to fall in love.
My oppinion is if you have any doubts, dont fight. dont go through all the stess. and just move on. in the end, its just easier that way.
but if you feel like you want to go through it, and you want to stick around, then just follow your heart and go with your gut instincts.
in the relationship im in now, i would probably give it time and let things settle down .. because after the last relatinship i was in, going through all that stress was not worth it.
good luck ! hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.
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I think it is if you really love that person and they matter to you. But usually the guy should fight for the girl because guys are the hunters and pursuers. Guys like it when you fight for them...kinda. But if a guy is in love he will move mountains to get to her and be with her. That should make you feel loved more than anything.
The only way I wouldn't fight for love is if that person didn't love me. And if that person loved someone else than I know I lost my battle :(
Once you know you can't live without him, your gonna fight for him because the last thing you want is to lose him. Hope this is good enough :)
But to answer your question yes love is the best feeling in the world and everyone in the world wants to be loved and to love someone. Why shouldn't you?
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well thats really up to you. me, i'd fight for it anyday. most of the guys i know wouldn't give a fuck it comes or goes; girls are more emotional than that. i don't know your gender, but i'm assuming you're female.
love can go two ways: good or bad. on the one hand, you could be with a really great person forever. when its good, its probably the best feeling. maybe even better than drugs. (my opinion) on the other hand, you could get your heart ripped out, stomped on, and blended into a dirty, bloody mess and no one can mend it, since the murderer could also be the mender, given the chance. (dramatization. although i've had my heart broken, it is very painful...not as bad as that, though.)
do you wanna risk it? love is definitely worth it, but is the person you're in love with worth it? someone once said "love means putting your heart in danger, sometimes it can be worth the risk)
i can't answer your question completely, i'm sorry. only you can. good luck :)
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