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marriage life.. help me..
I really love my husband but i keep having these thoughts what it would be like with out him we have a lot of problems and then again i feel like i do not have a good enough reason to leave him. our problems are i feel he yells at my son (his step son) to often and over stupid stuff if i correct him my husband throws a fit saying you are always telling him the oppisite, he is constatly trading and selling dogs, he hasnt had a job longer than a week since i have known him, his last real job was in like 2008 sometime, around the house i can not get him to do anything, if i ask him to do anything its days before he will do it and i ask him why its not done he says why do i have to jump up and do it. if i start to do it then hell get up. we had split up because i had surgery and he refused to help me i had to take care of my two kids and my self a day after i had surgery well while i stayed at my dads he gave my furniture away for a dog, all my dished and stuff are gone i have nothing any more and he doesnt seem to care. the furniture i am upset about i am still paying on them almost 3 grand i still own and he wont help me get them back and he still talks and hangs out with the people like nothing is wrong. sometimes i cant even think of the good things. its just once in a while he has good times were hell straighten up a little of offer to take my son with him to the store something like that. sorry so long.
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Get counseling together or leave. As I see it those are your only options in order to keep from going insane. Or leave and THEN get counseling... you've made a poor choice for a partner. Its time to make some good choices, for you and your children. And remember, the right choices are rarely the easy choices.
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You answered your own questions. Dump him!!!
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