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my ex cant get out of my life


Question Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 12:42 am

my ex boyfriend never leaves me alone. he asks me all the time if i want to hang out with him tonight and i said yes in the past. and he just wanted to make out with me and have sex. he never talks to me everyday. the only time he talks to me is when he wants to hang out with me and that's usually at night. it's really pissing me off. i tried acting interested in him and said yes. and talked to him a lot so he would back off. it was really boring talking to him and i was really not even interested in doing this but i had to get him out of my life. i got so bored that i eventually just ignored him for a couple weeks. then he comes back and pursues me and asks the same question "do you want to hang out?" the problem is im in love with this other guy and its not my ex. i told my ex i love someone else. i was mean to him i cussed him out. he just laughed at me and didnt take it seriously. but then he didnt talk to me for a couple days, then next thing you know he invites me to his house because hes having a party. i say yes. we end up having sex. it was the worst most boring sex ever. after that i made a promise id say no to him 4 times and if he doesnt give up by the 4th time then i dont know what to do. TODAY he texted me at 5 am and asked me if I wanted to hang out.

I ignored it. I didnt even respond. I just cant get him out of my life. I dont like him. I cant seem to like any other guys because my ex is always there wanting to make out with me. Not only this but he asks his other ex if she wants to hang out with him too...idk what to do. I thought he liked me until i realized he was just using me. i cant seem to do anything about it. hes really annoying. he calls me too until i pick up. i dont need him in my life and i know he doesnt even have feelings for me anymore because his friends told me he doesnt. please help. by the way he was the first guy i ever had sex with and thats not a lie. please help me i really want him out of my life forever.


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marinemom24 answered Sunday January 16 2011, 10:49 am:
This guy's a jerk and is using you big time. My advice is to completely cut all ties with him. Don't answer his phone calls no matter how many times he calls. He keeps bugging you until he wears you down and he knows it works eventually. Show this jerk once and for all you don't need him and you're done letting him use you. You really need to do this for your own mental health. You'll never be able to move on with the other guy if you keep allowing this to go on. Hope this helps.

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