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How do i make my boyfriend pay more attention to me?

Question Posted Sunday January 16 2011, 2:44 am

My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. He always would rather play games and hang out with his friends with me. But yet when im not around he goes out of his way to hang out with other girls and then says there just teases so i have nothing to worry about. What does he mean by their just TEASES???? And how do i get him to be more interested in me then them?? All you guys out there plz give me your insights. thankyou

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sparkle26 answered Sunday January 23 2011, 12:01 am:
If he doesn't like you for who u r, chances are you should tell him how you really feel. He probably is preoccupied with being a boy, unfortunetley you can't make anyone like you, but you can speak your mind. Ask him if he still feels the same way. If he rejects you, and doesnt make eye contact when your telling him this, do not get discouraged. There's plenty of other guys that are probably interested in you. If he doesnt like you for who you are, dont change, change the guy your dating. If he isnt understanding and sympathetic when your having a talk with him, hes probably nervous. Or he feels embarrassed to show his feelings for you, and tries to not hang out with you. If he does feel this way, try to tell him, you shouldnt be embarrassed to show his feelings to you, tell him your here for him. Bottom line:if he really does like you, and hes too shy, be there for him, be patient.If he doesnt like you for who you are, theres always other guys in to u.I hope this helps! Good Luck! Rate me if youd like!

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miranda_love answered Sunday January 16 2011, 6:00 am:
Give him all your love. Don't show that your jealous. He should be interested in you more than ever. Be nice to him give him compliments. Guys have feelings to you know. Maybe he just doesn't feel important to you right now or he's not committed fully who knows? I think once you show him your love he will return that love and hopefully give all his attention on you. If you love someone you sometimes get love in return. Maybe after he starts giving you a lot of attention play hard to get and be a challenge so he can be even more interested. You know you would like that more than ever right?! Good luck with him :)

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