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Does he want out of our relationship?
Posted Friday January 28 2011, 1:46 pm
Ive been with this guy for a year and a half. When I went away to school(7 hours away) we continued to date and we’d get into casual fights. But in the spring, he moved 2 hours away from me. I’ve seen him almost every weekend including last. But he started getting really bad about calling me. He says hes always stressed out with school and that he is really unhappy with where he is. He told me during the weekend that he only seemed to have fun with me these days and was tired of the two guys who talked him into moving there(one of them is freeloading on his couch) I could see he was really frustrated but when I didn’t hear from him all day on Tuesday I guess I kinda flipped out and was angry that he never calls. He apologized on the p...
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what and how am i supposed to do?
Posted Friday January 28 2011, 1:59 am
I went thru a bad thing with this guy "J." It took me a year to get over it. I stopped dating and looking for guys for 1 year 6 months. Mostly because I found that I never could like anyone in that way. Until I met "T." It was pretty much an instant thing we started talking in class laughing mostly. He makes me laugh. He has a girlfriend. They've been together almost 2 years. He's also a flirt. He's probably a player too. I don't know. I know he's never cheated on his girlfriend, just flirting. I know he likes me. I really like him. Sometimes we text a lot sometimes we don't. Right now he pisses me off because I don't know if he's playing me but when were together its diffrent. I can help but smile. He's beautiful to me...
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Should I keep talking to my ex?
Posted Friday January 28 2011, 1:37 am
I dated this one guy like 2 months ago. He broke up with me because supposively he didnt want to cheat on me. I got mad because before we got together he was dieing to go out with me and becoming bf and gf and he said he was in love with me and all this crap then he just ends it like nothing. :/ AFter about a month he texted me and started bragging about his new gf. I got mad and didn't text back. Then a month later he texted me again asking me how have i been. Should I keep talking to him as friends or should I just forget about him and lose contact ?
P.S. I'm 15 and he's 16 .
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I kissed my friend and I think I like her but she has a boyfriend?
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 11:50 pm
Okay so I'm Bi and I have a Bi friend, whom I kissed at my friends 13th birthday. She and I are both very open about being Bi and I'm 12 and she is 13 we are both girls. I know we are to young to be kissing and dating and stuff. But after I kissed her a really latched onto her and stuck around her and ended up REALLY liking her. She has a boyfriend who is aware of her bisexuality. We slept in the same bed that night, although my other friends were afraid to let us. I don't know what to do about this or if I seriously like her or it's just the effect of kissing her. I don't know. Please help me!
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how to make it go faster? When will he ask me out?
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 11:14 pm
hi my names jamie im 18 and i like this guy, first i wanted to just be friends, but i am positive he likes me 2, (dont ask, its the most obvious reasons), and i am friends with his ex, but she is dating someone else. so i feel its the perfect time to date and sh*t. so i want to take things a day at a time, ya know get to know each other as budddies then date. I know he doesnt like anyone else, and beleive me hes set on me. so he hasnt asked for my number yet. When will he? we know each other for like a week (i know it seems like nothing) but we have a lot, alot of chemistry. and when will he ask me out? thanks
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can you like 2 people at the same time?
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 10:42 pm
k so i have a huge problem... i had a long distance relationship with a guy i admit he was kind of a jerk most of the time but recently he's been doing things right, he cares and proves it to me that he loves me, he's about to come to my city to visit for a while in about 3 weeks, ive stayed faithful the WHOLE time, but then i just recently met a new guy who's just here on exchange and he will be leaving at the end of the semester so either of these guys won't be here with me for long, i do love my long distance bf cause we've been through alot ! and the fact he cares so much to come all the way over here he literally lives in the other side of the world...but also ive been spending alot of time with this new guy and i do like him alot aswe...
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What the guy I like thinks of me?
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 6:43 pm
I have a problem. See, I really like this guy but I have no clue what he thinks of me. Sometimes, I find excuses to talk to him in a group when I have the chance to make a comment. But, no actual conversation has occured. At least twice I have caught him stare at me for a long period of time. Today, I looked over and he was staring. I can't even explain the look. It's like the world runs normal around everyone else because he is his usual goofy self. He never seems like he could be shy. He seems so confident. I stared for a bit, then looked over at this other girl because I wanted to figure out if he was looking her way. He wasn't. I kept my eyes forward, and for a few more seconds I felt his eyes on me. So, I don't know what he thinks abou...
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My worries :/
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 3:57 pm
Hello, (Sorry, if it's long..>.<)
Okay, well to start off my boy friend and I have been together for a year now, and this person has became so close to me, and I care for him very much. I'd do anything for him.
He doesn't have a family who is really there for him, his mother lives in Alabama and he doesn't know who his father is, so he lives with his grandmother, and great great grandmother. His mother was into drugs and all that :/
His grandmother has been there for him, most of the time but she is so mean to him, and she puts on an act for others and my mother and I. She's strict on us not seeing each other at all, no dances at our school, no dates were only aloud to see each other at sch...
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"Leave me alone"
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 2:03 pm
He has been acting different again. He's pushing me away again. The thing is, I was supposed to call him around 12 last night to go to sleep on the phone. The reason why I say 12, that was because he gets out of class around 9:50, so I thought he wanted some time to study. But I was exhausted, I did only 3 subjects of homework 5 hours straight, so I was tired. I tried to keep myself awake while I was waiting. 11 PM, I fell asleep, I woke up and I was panicking because it was 2:45 AM. :( I called him right away and he didn't seem happy at all. He didn't say, "i love you" or anything, and went straight to sleep.
I texted him in the morning to tell him what happened, and he didn't say anything about it! I asked him if ...
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I am 18, and my mom STILL doesn't want me to sleep over with my BF
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 11:29 am
i'm 18 and my boyfriend will be 18 in a couple weeks. we have been going out for 3 years almost and were never allowed to sleep over, ( my mom doesnt like the idea) now i get that in her house its her rules and thats how she wins the arguments always. however, i am now 18 and i feel that i can sleep at his house. his parents find it okay becuase we have been going out for so long. his mom wanted to throw him a party for his birthday and thought it was going to get late and instead of me leaving stay at his house and sleep in the spare room just to make my mom at ease. she said she would even talk to her if she had concerns. i just want to be able to tell my mom what is going on and her not to say no. I mean i try to go about this as if you ...
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Confused: I want him, but I don't want his kids.
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 10:47 am
I am in one of the best relationships I have ever been in. I am 43 yrs old and finally found the one guys that i have so much in common with. He makes me laugh, we talk about anything, the * is great. He is truly my prince. But he has a lot or baggage. Huge baggage. He has 3 kids and he is the sole provider of these kids. He has 2 twin boys that are only 5 and one 12 yr old. The twins were born as premies and they have all sorts of health issues, along with ADHD and the mother was on crack when she had them. His 12 yr old is ADHD and a introvert. Me and this guy have been dating for a yr. He so desperately wants me to move in and get married. I have a son 22 and a daughter 9. I simply do not want to start over raising kids. And I feel kinda...
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i am afraid of remaining alone
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 7:00 am
please read i need help
is is possible to find love again? i am so scared that i will never find someone else. i have been trying. ever since my bf of 2 years broke up with me about a year and a half ago. my greatest fear used to be losing him and that already happend. now my new fear is never finding that special person who loves me respects me and would treat me right. people have said that he WILL come to you when you least expect it and to not go out looking for it because it will be when the time is right. im in my late teens and still young. im a good girl and i nice person. i dont know what to do. im so confused and feel so alone and im ready for that special someone but i just cant seem to find him. i dont kno...
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talking about an ex
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 3:32 am
why does he always bring up his ex when we talk?
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Cheating Boyfriend
Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 2:03 am
My boyfriend keeps looking for an argument to break-up and once we do hes gone for a few weeks then he appears again like nothing happened or it was my fault he says Im to stubborn and I never call or text him first but when I do he always says hes busy and will get back to me later...He calls me once in a while during the day then he tells me his phone died or hes gonna go sleep and he will talk to me later. He texts me random messages and is always texting even when hes out with me but he claims he loves me and only me and he told his whole family about me and says he wants to marry me when we end things he says hes not going to chase after me anymore but re-appears in my life again just when im adjusting to the idea of being without him....
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always getting screwed over
Posted Wednesday January 26 2011, 11:54 pm
Okay this is a long story but i'll try and shorten it as much as i can! basically,i started a job and met a guy that i worked with and we started talking and stuff,he seemed interested and i was as well. He has a girlfriend,but we were just talking via text ,no biggie. Then we started hanging out and i started to really like him ,and his gf wasn't treating him right so he dumped her for me.After a few days,they got back together and were on and off,and i was in an awkward decision. He told me that he really likes me and thinks he'd be with me forever but that i came at the wrong time in his life and he still loves his gf. He told me he wanted me to get out of his life so he wouldn't get attached to me. I was heartbroken and he was too becau...
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Hurt && I wanna cry
Posted Wednesday January 26 2011, 10:55 pm
Theres two things going on right now that i dont know what to do . My ex is telling me he loves and cares about me still and he wants me back but his ex is telling me he told her he only loves her and now they just had a baby together and i dont know what to do !?
And the guy ive previously asked advice about is now ignoring me , He has a new girlfriend and he doesnt even have time for me like i still have feelings for him but i just wanna be friends please somebody help me I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ),=
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I don't fit in
Posted Wednesday January 26 2011, 10:19 pm
Okay... dating for awhile now. It's a long distance relationship but we travel and visit each other. I'm just worried... I'm not like the people there I'm from a small town and he ... well he isn't. I'm just worried I won't " fit in" ... help!
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its about me wanting to get back to my ex
Posted Wednesday January 26 2011, 12:49 pm
There's this guy i dated and i cheated on him.. its a long story.. he knew i didnt love him and that i stayed with him cause he really loved me and he wanted me to give it a try. i liked his best friend and he knew. but his best friend played me before.. any how so i sort of cheated on him with his best friend.. and another guy.. which was a friend of his too. He loved me a lot so he gave me another chance to be with him.. later on i really loved him.. But he broke up with me like 4 months later cause he got bored. Well now its been 6 months since we broke up and i dont usually see him a lot, but i love him soo much. Then recently now i sent him dirty pics of me.. But i also sent them to his best friend.. me and his best friend always were ...
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wanting me the right way
Posted Wednesday January 26 2011, 10:05 am
is it normal for a guy to stop himself from having sex and instead tell you he wants you the right way, not a one night stand? Its not like he stopped kissing me and my body, and we wound up having the best sex a few weeks later....
so what is the right way for a guy? I thought all guys thought the same...sex is sex.
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i need cute nickname ideas!
Posted Wednesday January 26 2011, 7:24 am
18/f and hes 19/m
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so ive been talking to this guy alot, and he always calls me gorgeous, cutie or bub.
and the thing is....i cannot seem to think of a cute nickname for him! any help would be appreiciated... i call him lovely but its kinda girly ahahaa.
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