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"Leave me alone"
He has been acting different again. He's pushing me away again. The thing is, I was supposed to call him around 12 last night to go to sleep on the phone. The reason why I say 12, that was because he gets out of class around 9:50, so I thought he wanted some time to study. But I was exhausted, I did only 3 subjects of homework 5 hours straight, so I was tired. I tried to keep myself awake while I was waiting. 11 PM, I fell asleep, I woke up and I was panicking because it was 2:45 AM. :( I called him right away and he didn't seem happy at all. He didn't say, "i love you" or anything, and went straight to sleep.
I texted him in the morning to tell him what happened, and he didn't say anything about it! I asked him if he was mad at me, and he said, "no." Then he told me to leave him alone! I was so confused, I asked him if I did something, he said I didn't do anything wrong. So now I'm more confused than ever. He hasn't texted me since. :( I'm really sad right now. I went to church and prayed. I saw him walking on campus twice, and we didn't talk... He didn't even bother to look at me. :(
I'm still trying to think what's going on. I hope it's not another girl, because he says he doesn't have time for another one. And I saw him walk towards the cafeteria, which is where he hangs out with his friends. I was thinking, maybe he's stressed out? But he could've just told me instead of pushing me away. But then when I thought about it, I told him if he's ever stressed, then to tell me that he wants to be left alone, and he'll tell me the reason why later.
He didn't say that, he just said, "please leave me alone." I'M CONFUSED! What the heck is going on. He could at least tell me why he wants to be left alone by ME. Not by his friends, ME.
What do you think is going on? I am completely confused, what should I do?
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I have actually been throught this situation before. The thing is, sometimes it is just part of a guys nature to feel this way. It is possible that he thinks that you may be going behind his back and talking to some other guy. I know i felt this way i dont know if your boyfriend is like i was but i felt that way because for the first time i was with a girl i really cared about and i have alot of problems getting a girl to date me. Just make sure he knows that he is the only one and give him some space and he should come around. I hope this helps. I wish you all the best.
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Well, he is obviously upset.
Other than that, we don't know much more than you do.
It could be that he is upset, but knows it wasn't really your fault that you didn't call, but honestly, it seems to run much deeper than that does it?
You can't control what he does. You are totally right that he could be handling this way better and being much clearer with you, but he isn't doing that, he's doing this.
So you have two choices, you can do what he asks and back off, trusting that if you give him some space know he'll come back and explain himself.
Or you can try to contact him again and ask him what the hell is going on.
He's checking out of the relationship, and that's bad. He's not willing to engage with the relationship, doesn't matter too much what his reasons are, this is probably going to end your relationship if he doesn't change the way he is communicating with you.
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