I kissed my friend and I think I like her but she has a boyfriend?
Question Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 11:50 pm
Okay so I'm Bi and I have a Bi friend, whom I kissed at my friends 13th birthday. She and I are both very open about being Bi and I'm 12 and she is 13 we are both girls. I know we are to young to be kissing and dating and stuff. But after I kissed her a really latched onto her and stuck around her and ended up REALLY liking her. She has a boyfriend who is aware of her bisexuality. We slept in the same bed that night, although my other friends were afraid to let us. I don't know what to do about this or if I seriously like her or it's just the effect of kissing her. I don't know. Please help me!
julie75 answered Friday January 28 2011, 9:12 pm: The only way to really find out how she feels about you is to go out on a friend "date". Go to the mall or the movies and hang out for a while. You can even invite her over to watch a movie or for a sleep over. If she touches you a lot when you talk to her or sits close to you, then chances are, she likes you. You can also try the direct approach and just ask her. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck. [ julie75's advice column | Ask julie75 A Question ]
WingYan answered Friday January 28 2011, 5:16 pm: Being a preteen its normal to be confused over these things. But unless she pulled back from you during that kiss, it wasnt you just kissing her but she was doing so right back and by the sound of things, without hesitation or any awkward/negative repercussions afterwards.
It seems she may like you as well. The only way you can know is by talking to her about it. See where you both stand on this. Even if she doesnt reciprocate, if she's a friend worth having it wont stand in the way of your friendship. [ WingYan's advice column | Ask WingYan A Question ]
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