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Should I keep talking to my ex?
I dated this one guy like 2 months ago. He broke up with me because supposively he didnt want to cheat on me. I got mad because before we got together he was dieing to go out with me and becoming bf and gf and he said he was in love with me and all this crap then he just ends it like nothing. :/ AFter about a month he texted me and started bragging about his new gf. I got mad and didn't text back. Then a month later he texted me again asking me how have i been. Should I keep talking to him as friends or should I just forget about him and lose contact ?
P.S. I'm 15 and he's 16 .
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I think you should tell him the truth about how you felt about him before and tell him that you don't want to hear about his new girlfriend because you're his ex now and you rather that your friendship doesn't revolve around his new relationship. If he has a problem then tell him you can't be friends with him and delete the number.
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I think he was feeding you BS with the 'i love you' stuff. I hardly think a sixteen year old knows what genuine love really is let along in the space of two months. Furthermore if he did love you he certainly wouldnt even be thinking about cheating on you after only two months. When someone cheats in a relationship and still love their partner usually its a stupid mistake due to problems in the relationship. HIs disregard for you is only further exacerbated by telling you he has a girlfriend after such a short amount of time.
You could start talking to him again. You'd just have to be on your guard and make sure your BS-o-meter is working. If he starts with his usual ways then atleast you know he hasnt really changed and you needn't waste anymore time on him.
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