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its about me wanting to get back to my ex
There's this guy i dated and i cheated on him.. its a long story.. he knew i didnt love him and that i stayed with him cause he really loved me and he wanted me to give it a try. i liked his best friend and he knew. but his best friend played me before.. any how so i sort of cheated on him with his best friend.. and another guy.. which was a friend of his too. He loved me a lot so he gave me another chance to be with him.. later on i really loved him.. But he broke up with me like 4 months later cause he got bored. Well now its been 6 months since we broke up and i dont usually see him a lot, but i love him soo much. Then recently now i sent him dirty pics of me.. But i also sent them to his best friend.. me and his best friend always were "that way" together.. but things went wrong and they both found out i had sent them to both.. his best friend ddnt care.. but my ex told me that he was gonna tk me into concideration again but i blew it! i feel horrible now.. these pictures spread everywhere! And my ex kept calling me a whore and stuff :( it feels horrible.. I have no idea what i should do! I just wanna change.. and become a better person and i want my ex to love me again.. i miss him soo much!! He was actually my first serious relationship and i miss him.. he was different and special.. How can i get him back after all this that ive done to him??
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People can only be hurt so many times before they put their foot down and move on, Nobody wants to be with someone who is going to cheat on them. I'm going to be honest with you, I'd be surprised if he took you back you broke his heart on several occasions. If you want to change, Then you need to recognize what you did was wrong and don't do it again. You made poor judgement, If you keep going down this road I hate to tell you...Your ex won't be the first to walk out the door.
Now a hard lesson learned: For the future don't ever send what you don't want to be seen.
The first step towards moving on is excepting the consequences, Your ex may not want you back and if he did, Know that there will likely be major trust issues between the two of you...As trust is what makes a relationship without it there is no relationship. If you want commitment you need to be willing to do your part.
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You've made your bed. Now you have to lie in it. It was good of him to give you another chance the first time around but the second time is a deal breaker. You clearly hurt him and it seems hes tired of being hurt and made a fool of. If you love him like you say then what are you doing sending his best friend graphic images of yourself, regardless of your past with him?
I'd be surprised if he took you back. even if he did would he completely trust you again? Im sure there'd be arguments because of it. You can approach him and have a serious conversation with him. See where he stands on the matter. Maybe he'll give you another chance. Otherwise start moving on.
Its great that youve seen the error of your ways and are trying to change but maybe you should just let your ex be in peace and move onto someone else and start a fresh, slate-wiped-clean, honest relationship.
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