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Cheating Boyfriend


Question Posted Thursday January 27 2011, 2:03 am

My boyfriend keeps looking for an argument to break-up and once we do hes gone for a few weeks then he appears again like nothing happened or it was my fault he says Im to stubborn and I never call or text him first but when I do he always says hes busy and will get back to me later...He calls me once in a while during the day then he tells me his phone died or hes gonna go sleep and he will talk to me later. He texts me random messages and is always texting even when hes out with me but he claims he loves me and only me and he told his whole family about me and says he wants to marry me when we end things he says hes not going to chase after me anymore but re-appears in my life again just when im adjusting to the idea of being without him...I love him but im so tired of being treated like this its so stressful for me especially since my parents dont accept him but i stood up to them for him so what should I do and why is he acting like this?


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julie75 answered Friday January 28 2011, 12:51 pm:
He's keeping you around for a booty call. His lame excuses for not answering the phone are because he's with another woman and more than likely having sex. When he's with you and randomly texting, he's making plans for his next booty call. Men that love you will never act that way or do the things he does. Time to let him be some other girls problem and find someone that will love you the right way. I hope this helps and good luck.

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Xui answered Thursday January 27 2011, 5:14 pm:
Dump him


If he isn't willing to make time for you now, He probably never will. You can't make a guy commit to a relationship. Your boyfriend obviously does want to be in a relationship anymore.

It takes Trust, Honesty and Commitment to make things work in a relationship.

Now for a little tip with the cheaters: Guys sometimes will tell anything to a woman to keep them around. It gets them what they want and sometimes that is the best of both worlds.

There is always someone for everyone, You have to find them. Drop the boyfriend, Cut the contact and find yourself someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

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karenR answered Thursday January 27 2011, 7:05 am:
When he breaks up with you, don't take him back.
He keeps doing it because he knows he can get away with it. Since it has happened more than once, I
think its proof enough that he isn't ready for a
serious relationship. He just declares his undying
love for you and says he wants to marry you because it gets him what he wants. You. Until the next time.

I think you need to find a guy who cares more about you than his phone. There are a lot of guys out there who will treat you like you are special. Drop
this clown and go find him.

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