Question Posted Wednesday January 26 2011, 10:05 am
is it normal for a guy to stop himself from having sex and instead tell you he wants you the right way, not a one night stand? Its not like he stopped kissing me and my body, and we wound up having the best sex a few weeks later....
so what is the right way for a guy? I thought all guys thought the same...sex is sex.
gr8fruit answered Wednesday January 26 2011, 11:12 am: Hi,
I would have to say, for the most part, no. It isn't normal for most guys in this day and age. BUT, I think what he did was very respectful to you. He wanted to wait to be sure he really cared about you before he had sex with you. Not very many guys I know are like this!
The right way for a guy can be very different, depending on the guy. Some guys just have sex for fun, for pleasure, just because.. and very few have it for the enjoyment of both partners. Yes sex is sex, but some (I guess I'll put it) actually care about the woman and her pleasures rather than just their own. RARE. I think you have a great guy and if you are curious why exactly he said that, just ask him ;) I think his 'right way' meant 'having the best sex with you'. Cuz thats what he did... Lucky you! [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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