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Does he want out of our relationship?
Ive been with this guy for a year and a half. When I went away to school(7 hours away) we continued to date and we’d get into casual fights. But in the spring, he moved 2 hours away from me. I’ve seen him almost every weekend including last. But he started getting really bad about calling me. He says hes always stressed out with school and that he is really unhappy with where he is. He told me during the weekend that he only seemed to have fun with me these days and was tired of the two guys who talked him into moving there(one of them is freeloading on his couch) I could see he was really frustrated but when I didn’t hear from him all day on Tuesday I guess I kinda flipped out and was angry that he never calls. He apologized on the phone but then I hung up crying, he never tried to call me back so I called him on skype. On there, he basically said he didn’t want me anymore and hung up. Knowing he was stressed I called him back and he said he was sorry and he was just angry and didn’t want to talk but he still wanted me. I basically made him stay on the phone which I shouldn’t of but I was so sad and scared that I wouldn’t hear from him for a while. Then he hung up again and sent me a message just saying goodnight. I waited till the next night and I heard nothing from him. I got pretty pathetic saying please a lot but still nothing. So I haven’t tried to call or text him for 2 days. And ive heard nothing from him. Normally I’d figure the no hearing is him just breaking up with me. But he’s done this before. He will break up with me for about 4 days to a week and then he will call me crying saying he loves me and he was just overwhelmed. I just want to know if everyone thinks this is just gonna be a never ending thing with him or if hes just stressed and needs me to be understanding. I really care so much about him and know he feels the same. Can this even be fixed or should I just ignore his phone calls and move on? Do you think he’ll even call this time? Please any help would be appreciated. I really don’t want to end it but I’m so confused. How can an amazing weekend with him turn to this?
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Give him some space to think about all of this. Perhaps with everything thats going on in his life he hasnt time for a relationship or perhaps its the distance or a variety of things. But let him figure it out. Its really obvious he cares a lot about you but his saying he didnt want you anymore, angry or not, didnt just come from nowhere.
Maybe leave it a week or two. If he doesnt call then you call him. Arrange to see eachother at the weekend and just have a talk. Get it all out there about whats going on, what you want out of the relationship and where you both stand.
It int fair on either of you to leave this unresolved.
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