my vagina is leaking some almost green ooze. it itches really bad & scabbing is starting to form. im so scared to tell my boyfriend.. or my mom. help! also my vaj lips are getting really saggy.
Since you did not include your age and even though you didn't. I'm pretty certain I'm old enough to be your grandfather so I'm going to offer you some advice.
When you have a medical problem such as this the best advice does not from one of us. We are not allowed, not qualified to give medical advice. None of us on this site are doctors. It is also impossible to give proper medical advice over a forum such as this. Your mother, Aunt, grandparent or even your father is the best person to seek advice from when not feeling well or having a problem such as this.
I'm sure you are wondering if the problem you wrote about is an STD. You could still be a virgin but could you get it from being fingered. That's not the question at the moment but if it is one you want answers to I'm sure your doctor will supply the correct answer.
If you are over 13 you are by law entitled to medical confidentiality. The law is called HIPPA. Under this law anyone over 13 must give there doctor(s) written permission to release medical information to anyone, including your parents. The doctor cannot tell your parents anything about your visit without risking going to jail.
This means that you can, if you need to, ask to see the doctor and not have to tell your parents exactly the why or what the doctor said was wrong. All they need to know, if you want to tell them is the doctor prescribed some medication and you'll b fine. I think that is a reasonable thing to tell them if you do not wish to say anything else.
This also means you can ask your doctor questions relating to anything about your body or health and your doctor will give you a straight answer. Some doctors can and will refuse to discus abortion.
So in a nut shell never ignore a physical problem with your body. Go see a doctor. If you need to ask your parents, and you shouldn't if you are over 13, then ask them. Don't be afraid to discuss women things with your mom, you don't have to discuss your sex life but I'm sure you may have other questions. Remember mom was once your age and she has seen everything you are experiencing and can help you navigate the road ahead.
WingYan answered Friday January 28 2011, 5:44 pm: Don't panic. It sounds like a bacterial infection. In any case get an appointment and get yourself down to your gynaecologist. They can give you a definite answer and the proper treatment. Theres no reason you have to suffer in silence like this and trust me, they've seen it all before. [ WingYan's advice column | Ask WingYan A Question ]
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