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falling inlove with the opposite race while married
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 2:25 pm
I am married with 2 children. I had an affair with a black man and I am white. I have tried for three months to work on my marriage and had no contact with him. I miss him terribly but have not divorced my husband bc he is a good dad and good husband. Everyone says it would be hard for them to adjust to someone black. It has been 3 months since contact with this other man. The feelings are not going away and I am trying to do what is best for my kids. Am i doing the righ thing? What is your opinion?
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sex
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 10:54 am
how can you have sex alone
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Girlfriend Doesn't Respect My TRUE Character
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 9:40 am
I have been in a 6 month long relationship with my girlfriend. Over the time I have realized she doesn't respect who I really am and seems to degrade me for it.
She's pulling me away from my music (which I enjoy and want to make a career out of), insults my friends (who mean allot to me and helped me through so much hard times) and wants me to cut my hair and shave my beard (I'm a huge hippie).
It seems to her, everything is wrong with me, and she is absoloutely perfect. I am just a disgrace.
I feel she wants to make me the kind of guy which I REALLY HATE which will make her happy yet me lifeless and miserable, not feeling HAPPY.
What is your opinion on this?
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need advice, do i let him go?
Posted Monday March 28 2011, 12:24 am
okay so im in love with my ex boyfriend still and he still loves me but says he doesn't want to go out with me again because we fight too much. i have tried to plea with, do i just give up? any quotes or advice would be good.
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My boyfriend wants variety.
Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 8:59 pm
My boyfriend and I have been dating for three months. We have a great relationship, full of trust and open communication. I feel like we are perfect for each other because we both agree we can be our real selves around each other so perfectly.
He and I kiss, cuddle, and hug all the time. He wants to have a more of variety when we see each other. I sit in his lap and stuff but nothing really sexual. He and I don't want to go that far. He is more experienced with kissing, but I don't desire to french kiss. I want to satisfy him more. I love to kiss and cuddle but I want some more variety without being so shy! I press my body against him but that's the only really sexual thing I do. He doesn't respond as much as I think he will.
I need some tips and techniques!
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Picture taking with my boyfriend?
Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 8:15 pm
I want to take pictures with my boyfriend but I'm really picky about the way I look in pictures. I'm afraid I will be too selective and he'll get annoyed.
Also, I want to take a picture of us kissing. I'm kind of shy about asking. How would I ask in a cute simple way?
Thanks a bunch!
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A girl
Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 6:15 pm
My girlfriend told her friends(best friends) she cheated on me and when i asked her she just said she was a compulsive liar and that it wasn't true. I really belive it isn't true either because it was supposedly with a guy 10 years older then her. how should i deal with this situation?
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Attracted to an older man?
Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 4:48 pm
When i was in middle school i was molested by my friends dad, and ever since then i have never looked at an older guy in a physical way. I'm 21 now and i work with a 40 year old who is insanley good looking for his age. He showed intrest in me and we've hung out a few times. The first time he tried to kiss me i felt VERY uncomfortable and said now, but each time we hung out i started to like him that much more, so we ended up making out. One night after drinking, we went back to his place and he tried kissing me more but i was tired so i started to pass out. I felt him taking my pants off, and then my underwear and he started to go down on me and then he had sex with me. I was pretending to be "passed out" the whole time, but he d...
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Jealous Husband
Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 3:47 pm
Please can someone tell me how can I deal with my jealous husband? He looks thru my phone to see who calls me and to read my text. If I go to the shop or to make any runs he wants to know who going with me, where I going, how long i will be, who I going to meet, and he times me to see how long I take. He feels like every man I talk to who he don't know wants to get in my pants or he belive we have something going. He also feels like his family members (males) wants to get with me. I love him but his driving me nuts with this jealousy,I don't know how to be sexual towards him no more please help.
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How can I get a guy to like me for me?
Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 12:56 pm
How can I get a guy to like me for me? I mean I dated this one guy for 6 weeks and now i want him back what do i do?
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Guy I dig in German class
Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 11:39 am
14/f
I sit next to this really cute guy in German class where we're barely allowed to talk in English. I like him a lot and can talk a little before the teacher comes in but we're both shy. He knows I like him because my friend told him (his friend as well) but I'm not exactly good with guys. I'm very socially awkward. What do I do? Thank you!
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getting my boyfriend hard
Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 10:04 pm
how could i get my boyfriend to get hard and then start to make out ith me?
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Is it worth embarking on a long distance relationship?
Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 4:33 pm
I've recently reconnected with a guy I met at school who I have always had a thing for. We are both from the same city but are in different places for university. We have always stayed in touch and been friends but recently we have been talking everyday and although nothing has actually happened yet, it's pretty clear that it will do. We have arranged to meet up when we are both back in our hometown which will be in a week or so.
The problem is not only do we live really far away from each other during term time (our universities are about 6 hours apart) but at the end of June I am going to work in another country for nearly three months over the Summer.
I don't know whether it's sensible to get more attached...
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My Parents hate my boyfriend I need help on what to do!!!!
Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 2:12 pm
Okay so my dad doesnt like my boyfriend I'm 16 and he's now 17. I've been dating and we have been together for almost 3years. The problem is my Mom put this restraining order against him and the restraining order is only for me and my two sisters.My boyfriend didnt do anything for the restraining order to be agianst him. I was 13 and he was 14 when we first met. Well recently my boyfriend got out of jail because of the restraining order and he wants to try talking to my dad, but I dont think thats a good idea. But I want to see what other people think. Would this be a good idea to meet and talk to my dad and possably see if we can be a couple with out sneaking around.If so where would he talk to my dad? Should I try talking to my dad about ...
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Hiding The Scars?
Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 11:22 am
First off sorry if this is in the wrong section, I was torn between two.
15/F
In a few weeks im goin to see my girlfriend and im scared she is going to see my scars on my arm. I started cutting before I met her then did what I could to stop because she made me so happy. But when I go over im scared shes going to see them and start questioning me. U hate talking about it and ive only told one person that i used to cut.
I wear long sleeves whenever I can but its going to be getting hot again soon and im getting really paranoid. Does anyone have any advice to hide them or something?
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Getting over him?
Posted Friday March 25 2011, 10:30 pm
female 17,
how do i get over my ex boyfriend? i"m in love with him but i've had enough of him he has played me lied to me cheat on me abuse me (emotionally) and I'm tired of being his rebound when we are together just the two of us he makes me feel so good and says all the right things and it just makes me feel so good but then when he gets in front of people he lies and doesnt even act like we mess around when he knows that we do. and on facebook i like his status and it said would he kiss me and he said NO shaking my head because the say before we were together and we kissed his is so fake and i just want all this to end i have to cut him off and forget about him but its so hard what do i do? if i continue to be his friend li...
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Do you think he likes me?
Posted Friday March 25 2011, 9:39 pm
There is this guy that I see around and whenever I see him he always staring at me. When I catch him he looks away very fast but if he thinks I'm not looking he will stare longer. There have been some instance where we have made eye contact for a long period of time. He doesn't say much to just small talk. But there are some days when he ignores me like I'm not even there and that confuses me. I want to know if he likes me and why he keeps staring at me but wont say anything. Should I make the first move?
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getting tired of the same kind of guys is there any still like this?
Posted Friday March 25 2011, 7:36 pm
hey everyone 13/f I love watching old movies on tcm and up to date movies in old time surrondings like in a different time period like the Notebook in the 40's. I was just wondering is there men still like that these days like noah from the notebook and similar characters. I just really can't explain I mean like that aren't trash. Like thats sweet old fashioned and things? I hope I'm not making A fool outta myself I just hate it when I think about it that guys aren't the same now as when they were in the 40's and 50's ? So do you think their are still guys like that?? Thanks you guys(: Please help!
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Made a mistake, now he ignores me..
Posted Friday March 25 2011, 2:54 pm
I'm a highschool female. I have a thing with this guy at my school. Well, I might have ruined my chances. Everything was going great until I ended up going to a party with my friend last weekend. I was having a lot of fun, and that certain guy wasn't there. I was chillin with another guy in his grade, and something happened and the next thing I know, we were making out! We both decided the next day that it was just pure fun, but then the guy I have a thing with found out. Here's where I'm confused.. he said he wasn't even mad! He said "well it's not like we're dating..." I apologized anyways, and the next day he seemed fine. But now he's just straight up ignoring me! I'm not stupid, I'm pretty sure he is mad but still... haha it's...
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Pregnant AGAIN by the same married man and my husband doesn't know
Posted Friday March 25 2011, 2:47 pm
I am pregnant again for this man.I told him I was pegnant like last time and basicly receive the same reception.He was very vacant and all of a sudden I can't come at his house because the neighbour's ask his wife if they had out of towners staying there.Yes he is married and so I'm I.I paid for the termination last time.
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