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Hiding The Scars?


Question Posted Saturday March 26 2011, 11:22 am

First off sorry if this is in the wrong section, I was torn between two.

15/F
In a few weeks im goin to see my girlfriend and im scared she is going to see my scars on my arm. I started cutting before I met her then did what I could to stop because she made me so happy. But when I go over im scared shes going to see them and start questioning me. U hate talking about it and ive only told one person that i used to cut.
I wear long sleeves whenever I can but its going to be getting hot again soon and im getting really paranoid. Does anyone have any advice to hide them or something?


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dshannon420 answered Monday April 4 2011, 3:27 pm:
I cut. I stopped. I dont hide because that is what made me who I am. Your honesty and transparency will be way more valuable than deceit and lies. I heard once that lying is impossible because you cant remember them all and will eventually contradict yourself. You are who you are, cutting and all. Just let your friend know that was before you learned to love yourself WITH her help!!!!!!!!!!!

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stormglitch answered Sunday March 27 2011, 1:40 pm:
you can try covering it with foundation makeup or any makeup cover stick, but i had bad cuts on my legs because i was real upset, and i went to the beach and got second degree sunburn, the sunburn hurt a bit but it got rid of the scars from cutting.

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nikz answered Sunday March 27 2011, 8:49 am:
how about you try wearing a wrist band for a while and use bio-oil or cocoa butter till it goes away

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