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Jealous Husband


Question Posted Sunday March 27 2011, 3:47 pm

Please can someone tell me how can I deal with my jealous husband? He looks thru my phone to see who calls me and to read my text. If I go to the shop or to make any runs he wants to know who going with me, where I going, how long i will be, who I going to meet, and he times me to see how long I take. He feels like every man I talk to who he don't know wants to get in my pants or he belive we have something going. He also feels like his family members (males) wants to get with me. I love him but his driving me nuts with this jealousy,I don't know how to be sexual towards him no more please help.

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hollister_lover09 answered Tuesday March 29 2011, 2:12 am:
I agree he only wants you for his self. But I can see where its very annoying. So, if you have nothing to hide then let him look. I think it will stop later down the road when he knows you have nothing to hide. Invite him to go shopping with you, this will show you again, have nothing to hide.

The timing thing is really weird, maybe have a talk about that with him?

i see some signs of a "bad relationship" on his part. Esp. the timing thing. He might have trust issues from past relationships.

as for sexual, I think you really need to clear everything up with him, I honestly don't know what to say for that, sorry.

I hope all works out!<3

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Teza answered Monday March 28 2011, 12:43 am:
Your husband is very protective of you and only wants you to himself. That's fine and it shows that he loves you, but he's being controlling towards you which is not okay. The best thing to do right now is to simply confront him with the situation. He might not realize exactly how extreme his jealousy is and he needs to be put back into place. If talking to him doesn't solve anything, the next thing would be marriage counseling. I know it seems a bit extreme, but this is an issue that has to be resolved.. and if it can't get resolved by talking, then seeking professional help is completely okay. Best of luck.

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