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Pregnant AGAIN by the same married man and my husband doesn't know
I am pregnant again for this man.I told him I was pegnant like last time and basicly receive the same reception.He was very vacant and all of a sudden I can't come at his house because the neighbour's ask his wife if they had out of towners staying there.Yes he is married and so I'm I.I paid for the termination last time.
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Like the others I'm not sure what the question is. What comes to mind first of all is the old saying; "You've made your bed now you must lie in it."
You have cheated on your husband and gotten pregnant twice. I'm not even going to go into the fact of the cheating, that is for your conscious to bear. But in this day and age to have an unwanted pregnancy is unconscionable and unforgivable.
Pregnancy termination is your choice, that is the law. My feelings do not enter into. The law says you have the right to terminate and I will not object to any lawful acts.
What I do object to is your cheating and becoming pregnant in the first place. The irresponsibility of both you and you adulterer boyfriend who is not stepping up and doing what is right. On r would think the first time this happened you would have learned what type of person he was and learned something . But for whatever reason you have you went back to him.
If you decide to terminate the is pregnancy, which I feel you will. Once you do I suggest you give great thought to terminating you marriage as well. You are cheating on your husband who hopefully is being faithful to you. This wrong in all sorts of ways. If you are unhappy in your marriage your husband deserve to know it and why. If the problem is something that can be worked on to correct then it is up to you two t do so if you both agree.
Fact is that cheaters are always discovered. Ad hurtful as it will be it will be less hurtful to hear about your cheating from you than a third party; especially if you wish to save your marriage.
If you were looking for some type of compassion from us, you just may have come to the wrong place. I don't think you'll find it here.
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youre a horrible person. what is your question?
you ended the life of a baby for your dumbass mistakes. Congratulations. Award winning mother right there.
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You would think you would have learned from the first awful expierience and termination. It's not right that you continued the affair and did the same things over again that led to this situation.
Your spouse deserves nothing less than the truth of what occured in both instances and how long the affair was going on so he can move on or you can or perhaps repair things. You owe him that.
What you do with the pregnancy is your choice but you have to walk that path alone and be 100% sure you can bear the weight of any decision especially termination as it's a life altering thing.
I would consider raising this child as your own and consider it a gift with or without a partner in a loving setting as something magnificent may come of this if you did. Start with telling the truth to your spouse and getting counselling and permanently cutting off the other man.
He's a coward for ducking responsibility and using you for a long time just for physical things. Sad that he can't man up and is trying to have you abort for the second time. Pretty bad.
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