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Made a mistake, now he ignores me..
I'm a highschool female. I have a thing with this guy at my school. Well, I might have ruined my chances. Everything was going great until I ended up going to a party with my friend last weekend. I was having a lot of fun, and that certain guy wasn't there. I was chillin with another guy in his grade, and something happened and the next thing I know, we were making out! We both decided the next day that it was just pure fun, but then the guy I have a thing with found out. Here's where I'm confused.. he said he wasn't even mad! He said "well it's not like we're dating..." I apologized anyways, and the next day he seemed fine. But now he's just straight up ignoring me! I'm not stupid, I'm pretty sure he is mad but still... haha it's probably not even a big deal but I REALLYY like him sooo any advice?! :) Thanks!
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well it's really good that he knows that he should'nt be angry because the two of you aren't dating but i'm sure if you've given him signals that you like him before you went to this party then that probably hurt him abit he thinks well she probably knows that i like her and she still kisses a guy anyways, he's gnoring you because he's dissapointed and thinks that you don't feel the same way towards him the only way to fix this situation is by telling him that you really like him and letting him know that you're not that kinda girl that just loses it and does anything with a guy i'm sure if he really likes you then the two of you can work it out
best of luck
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The guy you like is intelligent.
He is intelligent enough to know he has no right to be mad, that you aren't dating and there is no reason for him to be angry with you.
However, he also intelligent enough to like you less, since you made out with someone else when you were 'certian he wasn't there'.
He might not be angry - he's just smart enough to take your feelings for him less seriously than he did before.
If you want to be taken seriously agian, you'll have to tell him so, apologize agian and promise to be behave better in the future.
If you REALLY like him, take the leap and ask him out. Tell him you are sorry about what happened, that it was a mistake and that you want to date him. Bite the bullet and move things forward with him before you loose him for good.
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