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dont know who to choose
so i have a group of friends i sit with at lunch and they are the popular group. i am also friends witht this other girl, Bethanny, she is viewed as a "slut" i think at times we are 13. the girls i sit with do not like her and talk about her, they are jealous that she gets with the guys they like, but then again those girls are really pretty but the guys go for the skank. and thats what bugs them. and i am friends with the skank. i only think she is skanky sometimes. i have told my friends what she had said to me and then told them. but it wasnt too faced because she said it to me and a group of people and she didnt care if people knew. She is really nice, risky, cute, and we have both cut and i feel she understands me better. But if i become really good friends with her, which im trying to fight, i dont wanna get kicked outta my table and my friends hate me. So i dont know what to do, because we could easily be bffl and my friends are just haters. But i love them too much to go against them. I dont know what to do, can i be bffl with both?
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Sometime in situation like this you might be influenced by the bad perosn in this case the girl who is considered a "slut" you dont want to be like her you should be friends with your lunch table in my option because what if one day you and your new bffl get into an arguement then stop talking your not going to have any other friends to back you up. Maybe you can comprimise and try to be friends with both but that could cause tension between both you and your lunch table friend and your other friend is it really worth it. I would still be friend with the other girl though because maybe she does the things that she does for a reason maybe she needs someone to be there for her there could be a real reason behind why she does what she does. be her friend but dont become to close yet first find out what shes really about
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Wow.
Another victim to peer pressure.
You should not give a damn what they think. Who cares what they think? If they were your true friends, they wouldn't judge you. You are acting like a two face. You're friends with Bethanny but yet you let them talk about her. If they can't accept you even if you hang out with her than there not really your friends.
Do you want to be a friend to a girl who is made fun of and rumored as a skank everyday, or do you want to be two faced all your life? I'm not being mean. I just want you to understand that it is not right. You shouldn't let your friends control you. The next time they say something that you find hurtful about Bethany, tell them that you're her friend and you don't appreciate it. And if they don't support you, then too bad, their loss. Everything will work out in the end!
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I hope I could help!
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