There is this guy that I see around and whenever I see him he always staring at me. When I catch him he looks away very fast but if he thinks I'm not looking he will stare longer. There have been some instance where we have made eye contact for a long period of time. He doesn't say much to just small talk. But there are some days when he ignores me like I'm not even there and that confuses me. I want to know if he likes me and why he keeps staring at me but wont say anything. Should I make the first move?
Additional info, added Monday March 28 2011, 1:45 pm: I do like him but whenever he comes near me I get really nervous and I can barely talk and also I'm not really sure if he likes me. I have seen some signs that he does but then there are days when he completely ignores me and he even talks to other women so i dont think he likes me. He's very good looking so I wouldn't think he should have a hard time approaching me. Plus I dont want to make a fool out of myself when I approach him. What should I do?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? musicissoul301 answered Saturday March 26 2011, 1:59 am: He could like you, but it could also just be that he thinks you're pretty. Ask him about it, don't beat around the bush, just go up to him and ask him why he stares at you all the time, but ask nicely. Yeah he might be a little embarressed, but that's what he gets for staring. If I were staring at some girl I would expect her to come up and see what the deal was, and if you do go up and ask him straight up, that could be you actually making the first move. Him staring might be his way of showing you he is interested and wants you to make the first move and it's his way of getting your attention. So my advice is, ask him why he is staring at you, and go from there. [ musicissoul301's advice column | Ask musicissoul301 A Question ]
lifesachallenge101 answered Saturday March 26 2011, 1:52 am: I am a female, and i always think that making the first move is always the best because most men are worse then girls are and are just so nervous.
I am guessing this is in school.
My suggestion is if he seems really shy he might not really respond much in person if you confront him.
so...
I DO NOT LIKE RECOMMENDING THIS.
but if you think this guy is kinda shy or confusing
I would talk to him online and see how he acts when you talk, see if he flirts etc.
facebook is the perfect thing.
Although, I say if he seems like a sweet boy, and wouldnt be rude, or start drama about you confronting him in person then do that! in person is always better.
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