There is this guy that I see around and whenever I see him he always staring at me. When I catch him he looks away very fast but if he thinks I'm not looking he will stare longer. There have been some instance where we have made eye contact for a long period of time. He doesn't say much to just small talk. But there are some days when he ignores me like I'm not even there and that confuses me. I want to know if he likes me and why he keeps staring at me but wont say anything. Should I make the first move?
He could like you, but it could also just be that he thinks you're pretty. Ask him about it, don't beat around the bush, just go up to him and ask him why he stares at you all the time, but ask nicely. Yeah he might be a little embarressed, but that's what he gets for staring. If I were staring at some girl I would expect her to come up and see what the deal was, and if you do go up and ask him straight up, that could be you actually making the first move. Him staring might be his way of showing you he is interested and wants you to make the first move and it's his way of getting your attention. So my advice is, ask him why he is staring at you, and go from there.
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This girl I'm friends with started calling me her "bestie" today at lunch. She said something like "You know what, Bestie? You're the greatest." I don't really know what that means? What does it mean when somebody calls you their bestie? Or besty, maybe? I don't know?
I think it just means that she is calling you her best friend.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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for the past week i have been on a strict diet
ill have 80 calorie bread with eggwhites
for breakfast wih a coffeee (always use half and half)
lunch ill have a small froyo or skip it
dinner will be a protein or ccereall
as you can see i eat very little and im very strict.
today i had a froyo, then 2 bowls of fiber 1 (this equals 400 calories believe it or not) then for dinner i had a chicken salad.
however my weight keeps fluctuating. ill loose a pound then gain 2. i dont get it. i am hardley eating!!!!
please spare me the lecture about body going into starvation mode so you gain weight.....
why am i not loosing?
Well you said that you sometimes skip lunch, this isn't good believe it or not! What works for me is that eating a big meal for breakfest, but with healthy low calorie foods. Lunch is the second biggest portion of food, healthy and low in calorie count. If you haven't discovered already, the food portions get smaller and smaller so the last meal of the day, dinner, should be the smallest. The reason this is, is because you lose more calories during the day doing everyday activities, then you do less activities after lunch then after dinner you sleep where you lose nothing or near nothing. Your eating habits currently could be why you are losing one pound yet gaining two. I say eat a bigger lunch so you won't be as hungry at dinner and you will eat less at dinner.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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alright so i really want an anchor necklace. i've looked around and i can't seem to find one that i really like. i want a simple one that looks good. something i could wear every day as well as going out. thanks so much.
I know you have probably already done this, but there is always the internet! You could google anchor necklace and you will probably find some online stores. You could also try ebay. Craigslist is an option, but its pobably not gonna do much good.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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Ughh, whats the best way to get over someone. I can't take it anymore..
Yeah, dont even attemt what nonameboy70 said, it doesn't work. What I do is I start looking at other people and eventually i just forget that i liked the other person. Its different for everyone so this may or may not work for you, but it works for me.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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I enjoy singing in my church choir. I sing first soprano. How can I improve reaching and sustaining the high notes?
I'm not sure how good advice this is, but I've heard it alot so it must work. Sing out of your nose a little more. This takes alot of control to keep it sounding good and not so nasily though. Another thing I would suggest is to raise your eyebrows, it raises the pitch in your voice, but only a little, not alot.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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my boyfriend and i are having our anniversary coming up and i need some help with a few things.
im doing a few things for him involving our "firsts" together. like where we went to dinner, what movie we saw, where we kissed and all that. but the one i need help on is when he told me he loved me...we were sitting on my dock at night looking up at the stars..so im trying to get him a little gift that symbolizes that, or maybe doing something that symbolizes that...any ideas? also what are some other firsts you might suggest?
and guys....how do you feel about get professional massages...like a couples massage? me & my bf always give eachother massages and i was thinkging i could get us real ones....or maybe should i just stick with giving eachother ones?
Instead of getting/doing something to symbolize it, why not take him to your dock and look up at the stars again and tell him, "This is where you first told me you love me" As for the other firsts, you could do your guys's first big fight. You could tell him that since you guys made it through that, that proves how much you two love each other. Also if this is your first anniversary then get him something for that, too.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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im 16/f. for the past couple of years i have been obsessed with the japanese culture, country, or anything. i've been dying to learn the language as well. My goal is i am going to make it to Japan one day and visit for a couple of months. however i know that the japanese language is the hardest to learn, but then i remember my spanish teacher saying that the easiest way to learn another culture is to live with those people for a while. how exactly would i go about doing that? this is a pretty rash thing im asking i guess haha. im actually wanting someone to tell me steps of how i would go about doing that. im not sure that i could considering im very shy. but i would get used to it. going to japan is something i crave i guess. im not really sure why but it just fascinates me. advice pleaaaaase!
--ps. if anyone knows of any easier ways to learn japanese (not really sure there is) then feel free to tell me :). and does rosetta stone really help with japanese. i am also going to need to know how to write in japanese...alotta work. ive tried...and trying by myself is reaaaaly hard!
Your spanish teacher is right. I think that is the best way for you to learn japanese. But you could always google japanese audio tracks and repeat what they are saying. Also I'm sure they have videos on Youtube that might help. As for the writing, I would recomend going to dictionary.com and then clicking on the "Translator" button. Once there in the box, type in random phrases like, "Hello, how are you?" After that choose the language you want to translate it to and click translate, it should show it in japanese writing. Also for speaking and writing, you could always get an english to japanese dictionary(if there is such a thing!)
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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I was in the same class as this chick. I didnt like her at first then we became cool. We started hangin out more...and i feel for her! I fall in love fast and hard. She basically didnt feel the same for me but that didnt stop me from loving her. I was "in love" for about 4 months and then i snapped out of it... i dont think i can be her friend anymore now but i cant hurt her feelings. I feel trapped and i dont know what to do.... Please help.
Hey I was in the same exact problem as you. What I did was just told her tha i needed a break from her for a while. Yeah she didnt take it as best as I would hope, but thats jus gonna happen. But you'll still be her friend cause if your anything like me(and by the way you wrote the question sounds like you're like me)then you will get over her past whatever because you will fall for another girl and then you two will be all god again! Thats how it went for me! Good luck.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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i need a song for a friend. i liked him and he liked me but we never dated. i accted stupid and i lost his friendship i need a song from me to him anything someone just please help me .im 15female.
Maybe "You Belong With Me" by Taylor Swift. I can't really think of a song to fit that siuation specifically, but I think comes pretty close. Or it's the exact opposite I don't know, but give it a try anyway.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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I am considering committing suicide and killing myself. I am need of easy suicide methods that are relatively painless so I do not suffer any more than required for death. I am in a bad situation in my life. I did some very bad things that cannot be forgiven. I figured it was best to commit suicide now before I make any more bonds with my surrounding community members. I live alone, am not married, and have no children to leave or hurt by my death. I found this site and felt it may be helpful in getting my deserved rest from this world. I do not want to continue to make mistakes in my life and dying will prevent me from doing wrong again.
Please, help me.
Here on advicenators we are not aloud to give advice on how to kill yourself an plus I think it's stupid to commit suicide it's taking the cowards way out. If you did bad things then ask for forgiveness even if you think it's unforgivable. Atleast try to make it better before you even concider doing what you are doing. If you are afraid of doing wrong to your community members then go see a theripest and try to work things out. Look at the cycle of day and night you see at night the dorkness or a point of bad time in your life, but keep waiting and try to make everything better, then you will see the light of day. You can also think of it like a roller coaster; when you're going up, the coaster has to work to get up there, you have to do the same you have to work to get to the point of you being forgiven. You do have people that would miss you, for example, your parents, just because you made a mistake doesn't mean that they will stop loving and caring for you no matter how big the mistake. So yes you do have people to hurt if you kill yourself. Turn to God and repent for the sins commited. Pray for his love and pray for his help and forgiveness. I'm sure you're not such a bad person, as a person you are probably great, but you just made some bad descisions. There aren't bad people just bad choices. So make the right choice and ask the community paster to help guide you to the Lord and to help you ask him for forgiveness.
Hope I helped
-musicissoul301 13(m)
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i dint know where to find glitter where can i find some,i need it in 3 days
boys:
i dint know whwt to say to a guy that likes me but i dont like him
HELP!!!
hey, I'm a boy so I can help with the second part! Anyway, I would pull him away from people so it's just you and him and talk to him. Say that you know that he likes you, but that you don't feel the same way and that you hope that you guys can stay friends(if you are friends with him) and that this wont hurt your friendship with him. Let him down easy.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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Ok, I love my boyfriend to death. He is so amazing except for one thing; he's TOO honest. I know, I know it sounds stupid but I don't know...sometimes we play this little question game like if we're bored or something and we just ask each other questions. I know I probably shouldn't ask questions if I'm so afraid of the answers but I don't know...I guess I just expect him to answer all of my questions nice and sweet for some reason. Ok, for example: The other day I asked him if he thought he would get tired of me if he hung out with me for too long and he said "yeah, probably...I have to have time for hobbies and stuff" and it's like I know that logically, what he's saying makes sense, but would it have really hurt for him to just say "No, of course not!" or something? :( It just seems that he doesn't really think about how sometimes his honesty can hurt me...I mean part of me feels ridiculous for even being upset about this because all anyone ever wants in a relationship is honesty right? But on the other hand, this isn't the first time he's done this...and then after he says it and I explain that it hurts me, he's just like "Yeah, I can see how that would have hurt you"...I don't think he understands how much it hurts me? I don't know...what do you guys think I should do? Or should I just drop it?
He's honest with you and that is a characteristic you won't find very often, so be happy about that and don't let him go. Since he is hurting you, I think you should talk to him about it and tell him that you like that he is honest, but that you would appreciate it if he would lie every once in a while just to make you happy. Whatever you do, I would suggest it, not order him to do it just suggest it and suggest it with a good attitude. Also I wouldn't suggest, suggesting it alot, only call attention to it if you feel the need to. And when he says that he would probably get tired of you it's not that he is trying to hurt you or not pay any attention to your feeling it's just that he is probably at a higher maturity level and expects that you would have the logical thinking and that it wouldn't hurt you, but rather make you happy because he's telling the truth and he probably thinks that if he lies about a question like that then you will be mad at him and that you would only expect lies from him and that would make your guys's relationship complicated. So, in a way it's not that he's not thinking of you' but that he's thinking completely of you and your guys's relationship! So, don't drop it, talk to him, but relise that he is probably honest for you and your guys's relationship.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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hey. my name is evan. im 15 years old and a freshman in high school. i have been diagnosed with malignant melanoma which is a skin cancer for the 2nd time. im tired of trying to keep the secret that im sick again. im gonna do chemo this summer but i feel like im gonna burst if i dont tell my friends. my parents said not to cause i already get made fun of alot and i dont wanna get teased about this. what should i do? should i tell my friends or keep the secret like my parents want. i just feel like i need to talk to someone. thanks for the help.
~evan n
If your friends are truly friends then they won't make fun of you. Plus, who in the right mind would make fun of somebody with cancer?! I wouldn't! I would tell your best friend and thats it. this way you have somebody to talk to and your friends don't need to worry! 'Cause you don't want to make your friends worry, all you would want is for them to be happy, right? Thats what I would want for them. And also there is no reason to tell them because you will survive and nobody will even know that you had cancer again, except for your best friend who you told in order to talk to during the treatments.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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Can u tell me any good love songs for falling for your best guy friend. And it had to be pop r&b or hip-hop. Hope this helps thanks your very much.
f/14
I would say "You Belong With Me" by Taylor Swift is the best. I know it's not really what you listen to, but it's a great song for the subject that you are looking for! I am in the same thing, just switch the genders, and this song fits, as long as you switch the genders(for me).
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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There are these two guys both of them recently broke up with their girlfriends. One of the let's let's call him b I have liked for a while and I thought he seemed interested. Now though I think I am wrong he told me right now he dosnt want a gf but he didn't tell me he dosnt like me. Yet he still fliers so much with me. Goes to where I am before class and talks to me when Im not around his ex he walks with me. I really have feels for b. My heart says to go to him but my brain says no that he will only hurt me. Then there is guy c. He seems interested in me. Since he broke up with his gf he sits with me at lunch. He texts me sometimes and gangs out with my before school and whenever I see him. My brain tells me to go for him he is a really sweet guy but my heart isn't their. It's thinking about guy b. I'm so confused and what sucks even more is that all my friends hate guy b because his ex is one of my close friends and they are upset about the break up. Idk they are wired like that. On the other hand they see guy c as a cool friend. Ugh I need help what would you do?
For guy c, just don't even bother. If he just had a break up and he is already chasing another girl, obviosly showing he didn't care about her, how do you think he will feel about you? Plus you even said that your heart isn't for him! If your heart isn't there then it's not true. When it comes to love and relationships, I say to follow your heart, not your head. Your heart obviosly wants b, but b is just not ready for another girlfriend, that I think shows he was one for the relationship, unlike c who didn't care. I say that you wait for b to recover and then ask him. Also help b recover to get closer to him and build a stronger relationship. Since b is your best friend's ex then you should prabably talk to your best friend about it. And don't think about what others think just think about how you feel, would you rather feel bad and go out with c to look cool, or do you want to be happy with b and tell others that they should just go and fix their problems and not worry about yours.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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im 13/f
hes 13/m
i like this guy so much i think i might be in LOVE with him. but IF we ever get together, how do i talk to him?
Whenever i see couples in the halls, there always kissing and hugging. And i hate PDA (public display of affection) I just dont want ppl to see us kissing and making out. So what do i do? What do i tell him. PS: we arent together.......yet.
Please help. Thank you in advance.
Just tell him the truth. Tell him that you like him and that you would like to go out with him. Also let him know that you want to take it slow wich means no PDA for a little bit. Trust me if you really like him you won't care about PDA anymore(thats why I said a little bit)!
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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DETAILS****i told her i liked her about a week ago,and things arent really awkward wich is awesome.But i dont know where to take it from here,i need someone that has experience to help me.thank you
,Declan
I don't have much experience, but I feel I have a good answer. Now that she knows that you like her, than you should get to know how she feels about you. Tell her that you would like to know how she feels about you and if she does then ask her out! If she doesn't then it's good that you took a risk and let her know that you hope that it doesn't make your guys's friendship awkward.
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-musicissoul301 13(m)
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i know its sounds disgusting but i really need help.I think its kind of nasty and i dont want to do it anymore lol so please help me! and im only 14 and im a female
When you get the urge to masterbate, catch yourself and pick up a book to read or watch tv or talk to your friends. Just go do something to get your mind off of the urge and you should be fine. Hope I helped!
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Is there any jobs that are hiring at the age of 14?
I think a palce called Colvers does, although I'm not quite sure and may be wrong.
I dont know If theres one near you though the only one I know of is where I'm at in Colorado.
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