my boyfriend and i are having our anniversary coming up and i need some help with a few things.
im doing a few things for him involving our "firsts" together. like where we went to dinner, what movie we saw, where we kissed and all that. but the one i need help on is when he told me he loved me...we were sitting on my dock at night looking up at the stars..so im trying to get him a little gift that symbolizes that, or maybe doing something that symbolizes that...any ideas? also what are some other firsts you might suggest?
and guys....how do you feel about get professional massages...like a couples massage? me & my bf always give eachother massages and i was thinkging i could get us real ones....or maybe should i just stick with giving eachother ones?
I don't know really what to suggest because its your private and intimate day so I don't want too make it non personal. However I will give you some suggestions:
- Maybe at midnight go back to the dock to have a final kiss and then go back to your room, or go and spend some time when its night (dark) by the dock, reminising.
-Maybe make him a cd of all the songs that remind you of him.
-And the professional massage, I don't know. To be honest, sounds a good idea but I think its more romantic and sexy giving each other them, but it does sound nice...
MidWestGirl answered Tuesday June 22 2010, 11:59 pm: Ahh...the first anniversary, one thing you might want to do is something so simple as taking him back to dock and simply give him a kiss and thank him for a wonderful memory.
A couples message is always nice but first hint around to see how he would feel about that.
If you don't have a lot of money they have message oils/gels out there that you could pick up one and just give him a nice relaxing message :)
musicissoul301 answered Friday June 18 2010, 3:55 am: Instead of getting/doing something to symbolize it, why not take him to your dock and look up at the stars again and tell him, "This is where you first told me you love me" As for the other firsts, you could do your guys's first big fight. You could tell him that since you guys made it through that, that proves how much you two love each other. Also if this is your first anniversary then get him something for that, too.
Hope I helped!
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