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Ok imma young girl who is in love with an older guy and he says he loves me to what do I do? (link)
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Well it kind of depends. There is usually an age group and it depends on the person as well.
For example I'm now 16 and the guy I'm kind of interested in is 19. Which would claim that I'm younger than him.
However, if his like 20 and your like 13. Then please don't do it. It will definitly not work out. For example, his friends will usually be all his own age, so you won't have anything in common with them. Also think about the reasons why an older guy would want a younger girl.
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my boyfriend and i are having our anniversary coming up and i need some help with a few things.
im doing a few things for him involving our "firsts" together. like where we went to dinner, what movie we saw, where we kissed and all that. but the one i need help on is when he told me he loved me...we were sitting on my dock at night looking up at the stars..so im trying to get him a little gift that symbolizes that, or maybe doing something that symbolizes that...any ideas? also what are some other firsts you might suggest?
and guys....how do you feel about get professional massages...like a couples massage? me & my bf always give eachother massages and i was thinkging i could get us real ones....or maybe should i just stick with giving eachother ones? (link)
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This sounds SO cute. Honestly, hun I think he will really like this...
I don't know really what to suggest because its your private and intimate day so I don't want too make it non personal. However I will give you some suggestions:
- Maybe at midnight go back to the dock to have a final kiss and then go back to your room, or go and spend some time when its night (dark) by the dock, reminising.
-Maybe make him a cd of all the songs that remind you of him.
-And the professional massage, I don't know. To be honest, sounds a good idea but I think its more romantic and sexy giving each other them, but it does sound nice...
Good luck and hope you have nice day
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Me and this girl started talking and really like eachother. The thing is, shes my aunts sister's husbands daughter ( aunts sister's step daughter ..he didnt have her with my aunts sister ). My aunt is together with my uncle (my uncle is the actual blood relation to me not my aunt). So there is like family realtions but not like blood relations. My question, if you understand any of this at all is...are we too close or too related to be bf/gf or to close for anyone like my aunt or uncle or her family to think its weird, if they think its weird are they right? Thanks =]
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Biologically no, your not too close to be girlfriend or boyfriend as there is no DNA which will be the same in either of you.
However, personally and socially, maybe yes.
It may be difficult for you to adjust your life around your family. Also, if you broke up, she would still be a major part of your life even if it ended badly.
Sorry to say but personally I wouldn't do it.
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So, i'm having a sweet 16 -- there will be a LOT of dancing with a DJ. i know some people aren't the dancing type, so what are some other things to do? I'll have food & tables, but i feel like thats not enough at all, you know?
I'm considering a pinata, but not full of candy only cause.. well, we're spending a lot on food. Maybe prizes, btu like what? I really don't have a lot of money, but yeah, any suggestions are appreciated! (link)
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It sounds nice. Only the last 'sweet sixteen' that I went to turned out to be an awful night. Where fights happened. But I'm sure yours will be fine...
Also maybe have 2 rooms, one for music and dancing and maybe another for just chilling out and being quiet with people.
Almost like a socialising room & a party room...
Finallyyy
HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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What are some really good snelling perfume and body wash that will drive a man crazy by how good you smell? Hahaa nothing to overpowering but something that is really good smelling and will make him be like "awww you smell sooooo good!!!" lol :) and no to expensive eaitherrr! :) thanks!!!!
~Kai (link)
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To be honest it varies with different boys. So what one boy is instantly attracted to and will love, others will think it smells horrible.
But personally, I go for a perfume I prefer as I'm the one who's wearing it. And after all, confidence is sexy. So whats the point of wearing a perfume that only guys will like that will make you uncomfortable and make you look less sexier than your true natural self?
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helppp!!! okay my dad is the most strict parent in te world and won't let me even talk to guys as friends. well he took my phone for no reason while I was sitting in my room and started reading my messages. I really dint think he liked them and he isn't giving it back to me until I go back to my moms in a week. but I'm sure that some of my guy friends are going to text my phone. and my dad WILL take thins the wrong way. I have no idea what to do I'm so scared. and my mom and dad are divorced so my mom can't do anything. help me please please please I'm freaking out!!! oh I'm 14 an I'm a girl. and it's not like I'm saying or doing anything bad he just is very overprotective and he's not one of the nicer parents you'll meet. (link)
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Don't think of it as a bad way. Think of it instead as good. He cares about you, so much he wants to protect you from the world there's nothing he wouldn't do for his baby girl (you).
So maybe he feels like your leaving him out a bit and feeling that he's a bit unwanted. Stupid, but true, dads do feel like that.
So instead of saying it all on here, talk to him. Or if you can't do that, write him a letter about how you feel. And ask for his side of the story.
Things may not be as they seem.
Good luck x
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What are some things I can do so my boyfriend will be really turned on? I do NOT want to have sex or show him anything of mine or touch anything or his or vise versa! Haha but I want him to just really want me. And remember no sex or anything like that!!! Please help me soon! Anybodys help is appreciated! :) (link)
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To be honest, if he is your boyfriend he already really wants you. And to turn him on without wanting to carry things further seems a bit nasty.
Just trust him and use your initative and play around i.e. nibbling his ear, laughing and stroking his chest.
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Female/ 15
What are ways to find out about a guy friend starting to become attracted to you? (link)
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To be honest I think personally you just kind of know. However, if you flirt a bit more and it back fires then you definitly know that he does like you. However, as it is a friend you may want to be careful, because if it does backfire it may be hard to talk to the guy, meaning you would loose your friend.
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I usually give advice to other people about this kinda stuff, but I currently I've found myself in a difficult situation that I could use some other opinions on.
I'm a guy in my early 20's that's been dating a girl for a little over half a year. The problem is she lives in another country, and I met her when I went abroad for half a year. The last two months we've been apart. I feel like she really is happy with the relationship, but I personally am not because of the long distance and some other reasons. I know it's selfish, but the reason I'm still with her is that I don't want to feel the loneliness of not having someone care about me in that way. I feel like even though I'm not happy with it that I would hurt her a lot by ending it also, and that I might lose some friends that are close to her and me, because they will take her side on it.
She's coming here for a year next year, but after that she'll be gone, and so I said eventually it would have to end and she got very defensive. She always ask me if I'm cheating on her, but I can assure you I'm not. She's really worried about the relationship not working out.
I just don't feel that connection, and i don't see it as that serious. I really have fun with her, but I don't feel a strong love connection, and I am absolutely sure that I wouldn't want to marry her.
I just don't know what to do, because eventually I will break up with her, but initially I was gonna wait it out and see what happens since she is coming back next year. I wish we could both just see the relationship as a non-serious thing, but I feel like she can't see it like that. I was just having fun with it, but I guess she has a much more serious view of the relationship.
Any advice or perspectives on my situation would really help me out. Thanks a lot (link)
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As a girl in her late teens (16/17) and have just been in a relationship with an 19 year old I can give you my personal best advice.
Tell her honestly. Me and my guy live about an hour and a half away by train from each other. But, he was so controlling because he consistently believed me to be cheating on him. And it wound me up so much that I now kind of hate him. Therefore I can't even start to believe what its like being in different countries.
Also don't string her along because of others after all its your life. And think carefully what you want to do because if its just a case that you feel that you don't love her because of the distance. Things can change, you can move, she can move etc. But if its like because you really don't want her then end it. Just be honest and nice and she may be upset but you know to expect that. In the end, she will respect you more if your honest with her not playing with her.
Good luck.
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I'm female, and 15 from the UK.
I live in the South and the guy I really love (like I've never met anyone as amazing as him) lives in the North.
We've been talking for a year and a bit, and when we're on an up (as it were) it would be like we've known each other our whole lives.
He's been at college (he's the year above me in school) since January but he's had his laptop and mobile, so i guess that's been OK.
But I got told the other day by my best friend that you shouldn't just let feelings waste away, you should let them out and show them. So I texted the guy saying that and he said that it he didn't want this at this point in his life. I guess I should respect him for that because he needs to get on and do what he has to do - like I do - even though we live 200-300 miles apart.
But I just cannot stop thinking about him and how I would love to just text him and talk to him all the time. I texted him since but there's been no reply. I just figured he was busy, ya'know?
but it occurs to me that, why should I waste my time on him if he won't waste his time on me?
I'm just generally confused about whether long distance is worth it when we're both still in education :/ I want to talk to him so bad, but I'm at the point where he thinks I am really annoying.
Thank you in advance for any help! XX (link)
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I've been in a similar situation.
My ex used to live in London (south) whilst me in the east midlands (quite north). And I met him on bebo when I was about 12, when I was 15 I decided to meet him with my dad. So he took me down to London to meet him. He was beautiful and I mean beautiful. We had such a laugh that day and things started to develop, we were soon a major item and loved each other. However now almost 17 and looking back I almost regret it. Because for almost a year he controlled me, because it was his "norm" and now I'm stuck with a major crush on him. So, think about it wisely and if you really do want to do something then ask your parents.
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I ended things with my long distance boyfriend of 1 year, a month ago. The distance was hard, we were fighting a lot the last 2 months, and I figured it was best to end it.
We haven't spoken since, as I decided no contact is best for me to heal, he did contact me once but I never responded.
3 weeks after we broke up, he got a new girlfriend. I feel really sick about this.
I was doing surprisingly well, until I found this out. Now I find myself thinking, "wait, are we soul mates? should i contact him? did i make a huge mistake and let go of 'the one'?" I keep feeling the urge to e-mail him, just to talk to him, to see if he still cares, to see if we'll ever have a future.
I haven't e-mailed him though, and I'm REALLY trying not to. I KNOW I'll look desperate, because he has a new girlfriend, and I'm the one that broke it off anyway. I really think the break-up was the right choice. But, I think because I'm extremely lonely, and so hurt that he got over me so quickly..I'm second guessing myself.
So, what do you think? I keep replaying the good times we had together, and thinking about how we really did click so well, and it was honestly the best relationship I'd ever had, before it went sour. We did fight, but we just clicked, like 2 ppl that were meant to be. The main reason I ended it was because the love just felt like it was dying? On both sides, and I assume it definitely was for him..because he got a new gf.
So, I'm just wondering..should I contact him? Or should I just never contact him..ever again? I feel stupid for wanting to know if he misses me, or if we'll ever get back together..but I do want to know. I really just need some opinions. It's been a month, and I'm feeling so alone, and so depressed. Please, any help. Btw, I'm 19, and he's 22. (link)
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Basically your in the last stage of a break up.
You are feeling self pity, like you'll never find another guy. So your thinking about all the good times you had with this guy. However, remember all those times that you fought.
However its hard too tell because most guys get boyfriends just because they want to make you jealous. And because they can't cope with being on their own.
Show him that your sexy, confident and don't need him. If you do want to contact him, don't be needy. Just drop him an email saying something like:
"hey, how are you? How's your new girlfriend? What you been up to? Not spoke to you in a while" or something like that. So he knows you care but your not desperate for him. If you ask about his girlfriend this way, you'll also know whether he's actually interested or just making you jealous..
Everything happens for a reason!!!
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i'm 16/f.
i've been with my current boyfriend for 7 months, and sometimes, i feel that he's too controlling. extremly controlling. and sometimes it get's out of hand. i've never really had a boyfriend, so i don't know if ALL relationships are like this, or if my boyfriend is just a jerk.he alllways ask what i'm doing. which, isnt bad, i can understand that, but he makes me tell him EVERYTHING i'm doing, and everywhere i go. he's constantly keeping tabs on me, and has even had some friends of his watch me at school to make sure i'm not flirting or talking to other guys. if i don't tell him when i leave the house to go somewhere, he gets mad, and starts a fight. if i don't tell him i'm leaving somewhere to go somewhere else, he gets mad, and if i don't tell him i'm home, he will. i can understand him wanting to know what i'm doing, so i'm safe, but i really do feel like it get's out of hand.i'm not allowed to talk to ANY guy. if i do, i have to tell him everything that was said between us. i have to tell him when and if a guy text me, and he starts asking a ton of questions when one does. i'm not allowed to text back, and if i do, it can only be about school, and i cant delete the text. i'm not even allowed to be around a guy, if one's around me, i have to move.he's always telling me what i can and cannot wear. i'm not allowed to wear shorts, or vnecks. if i ever do wear a vneck, or shorts, i have to be around him. it'll be 100 degrees out, and i can't wear shorts, he makes me wear jeans. i have to send him pictures of what i'm wearing, and if i wear something he doesnt like, he gets mad.he wont let me hang out with friends. i havent ever since we started dating, and i'm loosing touch with them. i don't really ever talk to anybody, and if i do, even if it's a girl, he ask what we talk about. if i text anybody else but him, he gets reeaallly mad.he's always talking bad about my friends, saying i shouldnt hang out with him, because their whores. i think that he get's jealous that i want something to do with somebody else besides him. he always talks about how their whores, but he's honestly done tons of worse things than them, their not even sexually active, or anything. so i really dont think he has any room to talk. if i EVER want to go out and do ANYTHING, he tells me no, and threatens to leave me if i go.if he ever gets mad at me, he calls be HORRIBLE names. and sometimes he does stuff that he knows i can get hurt by, like if we're in the car he'll slam on his brakes while i'm trying to get my seatbealt on. he tells me to look at him, and if i dont, he'll grab my face and make me. he even gets controlling about little things, he get's mad if he's not my background picture. things like that. he loves me, i can tell he really does, and he can be the biggest sweetheart sometimes, but i don't know if i'll be able to take any of this much longer. i can sometimes understand why he's like this, he's had his past 3 girlfriends cheat on him.i can go into alot more stuff, but i don't want to make this question too long. soo, are ALL relatoonships like this, or is this really unhealthy? maybe relationships just arent for me? (link)
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Sweet heart I'm sorry.
I've just been through exactly the same as what your going through. Unfortantly, when boys want to control you. They will miniplate you. One major thing I noticed is my ex would be extremely happy and give me lots of compliments like "your so sexy" etc. Making me feel so good about myself and making me feel like his lovely and then he would control me. So that I kept thinking he was lovely.
All of my friends and family saw what he was doing to me but I couldn't. But I finally realised when he decided to shout at me for talking to my sister.
Honestly darling, you 16. And your FAR too young for this shit. I promise you. For me and for every other women in this world. End it with this boy.
After all, no boy is worth your tear and the one is won't make you cry!!
Relationships are for everyone. Your sixteen years old not sixty, you've got the whole of your life to live. Just go out there and have fun.
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what does it mean when you make out with someone and they get a bonner and they get all horny what does that mean we werent doing anything but make out thats it and he got a bonner do guys always get bonners when make out? (link)
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Boys get hard ons for no reason, but its probably because of the sensational, close feeling you two had.
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Hiya. I am looking for some songs to have sex to with my boyfriend. My boyfriend gets nervous easily and he said if we had some music on or something it would be easier for him to do it with me. It sounds fine to me but I don't know what some good songs to have sex to are.
I guess the music genre doesn't really matter as long as it's good for sex? We've only tried having sex twice so we're really new at this whole thing anyway. I looked up some suggestions but I just kept coming up with songs that were good for stripping. haha
Sex music suggestions anyone?
THANXXX (link)
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It depends on what sex mood you want to create.
But some good ones are:
"sexual healing" and "let's get it on" by Marvin Gaye
"your beautiful" by James Blunt
"the lady in red" by Christ De Burgh
"angel" shaggy
and finally
"Thats why I love you" by Aslynn
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Although I'll get rude answers from this, I'm extremely worried and concerned to the point where my stress has gotten me sick and maybe delayed my period. So, as I said, I was naked while he wore boxers and basketball shorts. I am on birth control and have been for 2 months, I'm only the last week in my packet and I'm going to be taking a white, sugar pill, my third one actually. I've been having cramping but no blood flow, I took my pills on the night of the incidents (it's only happened twice.) What has gotten me so upset is thinking that it could of gotten through, although HE DID NOT EJACULATE. I should be getting my period any day but all I've gotten is a lot of white fluids. (link)
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Basically to make a baby you need his sperm (actual sperm) and your sperm to mix. So because he wore his basketball shorts and boxers, there is no way it mixed. He may of had a little stain his shorties, but your not pregnant.
Also the white stuff your getting is discharge. Which loads of women, all over the world (I'm from England and I get it). Have, its just a sign your body is getting ready to have a period.
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what is cum used for (link)
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Cum is used to reproduce. You'll learn about it more in biology.
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I'm a 14 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 weeks. We were making out and he started taking off my shirt and bra i didn't mind that much so i let him continue and we made out for like 2-3 minutes with my clothes off. I feel like I'm a slut for going that far. He says I'm not but I know he would say that because he wants it to happen again. Am i a slut? (link)
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No your not a slut sweetie.
But you are 14, and that is too young for all of this.
At three weeks, you don't love your boyfriend and your boyfriend doesn't love you. Trust me, i'm a 16 year old and from all my friends I have learnt that.
So, why give something SO special to some guy.
Honestly, your not a slut, but don't rush to grow up. Please, I learnt the hard way, enjoy being a kid whilst your still a kid. You have so little years being a kid and SO many years being an adult.
Don't you want to give your virginity away to someone much more special than him?
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16/f me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months today. we have planned on haveing sex weve talked about it. he says the girls supose to be on top but i beg to differ i mean theres alot of possions i no that but like idk. also im very uncomfterble with my body i mean im not fat and im not skinny and i have huge boobs 34dd and a huge ass. but im scarred to go on top because my boobs are large and kinda sag abit and im really uncomfterble about it. do you think he would care... :/
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Obviously, he doesn't care. In his eyes, you are beautiful. That's why he's with you. Because he loves you, every single bit of you.
Media has made us girls ashamed of our body, because of the skinny idols. However, I think bigger is beautiful.
However, I think personally its easier for the dick to stay in the vagina when the girl is on bottom. However, like you said there are lots of positions. So have fun and expirement.
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I had my first period on Jun 7, 2010. I am expecting my second period within the next few days. I am having the symptoms... cramps, I am crabby, and my boobs are really sore. Also... I need some new feminine hygene products. I am not in the mood to spend a lot of time in that aisle... so does anybody have any suggestions for a good overnight pad and pantiliner? Thanks! (link)
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Don't know if this helps butt
I found this:
http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/home.jsp
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hey so im 15 f
~well me and this guy in my classs during school would always flirt and like touch and constantly just flirt.... well...recently we started texting ALOT like all day! and he has recently started to talk sexually.... like he wants us to do stuff.... so now he wants us to hang out and you know ... do stuff.... well i have never done anything before.... like not even kissed.... welll not like actuallly..... so like i reallly wanna have fun with him ! but like i wouldnt go past oral .... well maybey not even that I DONT KNOW YET! like idk what to do ..... do it ... or not do it... so like basically what i am asking is..... what are the positives and negatives to taking him up on his offer? and please dont give negatives i want positives to! :) THANKS :) (link)
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To be honest.
As a 16 year old girl, that has done it.
I can honestly, tell you.
That a lot of guys, feel they are pressured into having sex because of the constant male peer pressure of having sex. Watch any film, listen to any song or have a look at any male magazine and you will know. So maybe he doesn't actually want to do it but feels pressured.
Also, as you haven't kissed him or got past second base. I would say defo don't do it. Otherwise, you'll be labelled as the easy girl who gives it away to anyway.
And finally, you don't need to know what others feel to make your decision. This is the biggest decision of your life. Most people will feel its not until they have actually given it way. And you will know when the time is right. Trust me, don't ask me how, but everyone just has this gut feeling of when their ready.
BUT never just give it up to some random guy please!
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