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Long Distance Confusion
I'm female, and 15 from the UK.
I live in the South and the guy I really love (like I've never met anyone as amazing as him) lives in the North.
We've been talking for a year and a bit, and when we're on an up (as it were) it would be like we've known each other our whole lives.
He's been at college (he's the year above me in school) since January but he's had his laptop and mobile, so i guess that's been OK.
But I got told the other day by my best friend that you shouldn't just let feelings waste away, you should let them out and show them. So I texted the guy saying that and he said that it he didn't want this at this point in his life. I guess I should respect him for that because he needs to get on and do what he has to do - like I do - even though we live 200-300 miles apart.
But I just cannot stop thinking about him and how I would love to just text him and talk to him all the time. I texted him since but there's been no reply. I just figured he was busy, ya'know?
but it occurs to me that, why should I waste my time on him if he won't waste his time on me?
I'm just generally confused about whether long distance is worth it when we're both still in education :/ I want to talk to him so bad, but I'm at the point where he thinks I am really annoying.
Thank you in advance for any help! XX
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I've been in a similar situation.
My ex used to live in London (south) whilst me in the east midlands (quite north). And I met him on bebo when I was about 12, when I was 15 I decided to meet him with my dad. So he took me down to London to meet him. He was beautiful and I mean beautiful. We had such a laugh that day and things started to develop, we were soon a major item and loved each other. However now almost 17 and looking back I almost regret it. Because for almost a year he controlled me, because it was his "norm" and now I'm stuck with a major crush on him. So, think about it wisely and if you really do want to do something then ask your parents.
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Long distance relationships usually don't work out
it's better to see someone face to face & in person
especially when two people are dating i don't think
it's worth it for the both of you to continue things
weren't meant to be between you two everything happens for a reason you should accept what he's told you & move on you can't change what he said to
you what's done is done i would focus on your education that's more important then relationships &
boys it would be ashame if you started slacking in college because boys got in the way he isn't worth your time you deserve to be treated better & not the
way he's been treating you there's other boys out there who are way better(:
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