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I am a young girl who is in love with an older guy and he says he loves me!
Ok imma young girl who is in love with an older guy and he says he loves me to what do I do?
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yea i agree... ages is a big factor in love..
if ur 13 and he is 21.... thats bad
if ur 17 and he is 20 not so bad
i would say if your from
16 and under and he is 19 and older-- its bad
soo more details please
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It would be easier to answer if we knew how old you were. if your a teenager than he probably just wants sex. if your older than he is probably looking for a standing relationship. take it from me, i went through high school and im still a teenager. most of the time us guys only want sex, even if tell a girl we love them.
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Most young women as they grow up are absolutely crazy about older men. They generally go for older men due to issues they had with their father or other adult male family member in their younger life. Be careful that you are not just looking for an older man to fulfill what you unknowingly perceive as a lack of love and stability in your life. You probably feel all safe and secure with him. And that is the feeling that you are longing for. There are better ways to deal with this issue than being with an older man. And by saying all this, I am going on the assumption that the age gap is significant and probably illegal. Get out now. This will only lead to heartbreak. Find someone you know you can trust and is not interested in you for a relationship. Such as a counselor. Just the fact that you are asking for advice on this with the information you have given.....is setting off red flags and alarms and tells me that it is NOT right or ok. And deep down, you know it too!!!
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That's really not enough information to say anything other than "if this is in any way illegal, you should stop talking to him"
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That'll tell you if it's legal or not. Just click on the table of contents link to "United States"
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Well it kind of depends. There is usually an age group and it depends on the person as well.
For example I'm now 16 and the guy I'm kind of interested in is 19. Which would claim that I'm younger than him.
However, if his like 20 and your like 13. Then please don't do it. It will definitly not work out. For example, his friends will usually be all his own age, so you won't have anything in common with them. Also think about the reasons why an older guy would want a younger girl.
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
How many different ways do you need to be told this relationship is wrong? Lets’ start with the legal definition of wrong: If the guy you are dating is over 18 and you are under 18; in many States just the fact you are dating could constitute statutory rape even though you may not have had sex. If you two have crossed any State lines together, without your parents’ permission, this is a violation of the Mann Act which is a Federal Law. Then of course they can throw in contributing to the delinquency of a minor, possible kidnapping charges and a host of other charges depending on the State you live in.
Most likely it is your sexual inexperience he is after and just what his plans may be I have no idea. What I do know is that you are in danger and need to stay away from this man. You need to tell your parents about him and about your relationship with him. They can help you decide if dating him is right or wrong.
You wrote us because your instincts tell you something is wrong. Follow your instincts and follow my advice to inform your parents. Have I tried to scare you with what I have written here? The answer is a definite yes. You have not said how old you are or how old he is. If there is a significant age difference you could be in danger; maybe not immediate danger but you are in danger every time you see this man.
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If he is in three years of you.your okay but if he isnt tell him that you dont want him to get in trouble with the police.
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You didn't label any details about age, However assuming you are under the age of 18 I say you need to move on and date someone who is your age. It is illegal to date someone much older than you and it is VERY wrong. If you two were to have a relationship he puts his reputation in jeopardy.
EDIT: Yes, If he is over 18 and he is caught with any sexual activity of a minor he could be charged with statutory rape, Aggravated assault of a minor, Corruption of a minor etc.
It's not a good idea, I would ignore him.
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