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have i gone too far?
I'm a 14 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 weeks. We were making out and he started taking off my shirt and bra i didn't mind that much so i let him continue and we made out for like 2-3 minutes with my clothes off. I feel like I'm a slut for going that far. He says I'm not but I know he would say that because he wants it to happen again. Am i a slut?
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Trust me u r not. I am. I'm 13 and been fIngered, my ex boyfriend sucked my boobs, I gave him a hand and blow job. Really you aren't
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no your not a slut for that , because its not like you and your boyfriend actually had sex. even if you and him did have sex you still wouldnt be considered a slut because he is your BOYFRIEND ! keywordddd . so you have nothing to worry about. but still dont take things too far if your not ready too .
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dont worry girley your not a slut just think people have sex on there first date so your already doing better then them lol :)
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Oh honey,
You are definatley not a slut your just experimenting. At that age sure it's okay to expirement just remember to wait a few years to have sex (technically that wasn't sex even if you clothes were off) But you are NOT a slut your only experimenting don't worry about it!
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No your not a slut sweetie.
But you are 14, and that is too young for all of this.
At three weeks, you don't love your boyfriend and your boyfriend doesn't love you. Trust me, i'm a 16 year old and from all my friends I have learnt that.
So, why give something SO special to some guy.
Honestly, your not a slut, but don't rush to grow up. Please, I learnt the hard way, enjoy being a kid whilst your still a kid. You have so little years being a kid and SO many years being an adult.
Don't you want to give your virginity away to someone much more special than him?
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No you are not a slut, He is your boyfriend
However at 3 weeks, I would slow things down a little bit there is no rush
Also, If you DO end up having sex be smart and use a condom.
EDIT: I never said that condoms will prevent pregnancy, I never said condoms work, I said be smart and use a condom. Condoms INCREASE the chances of preventing unwanted pregnany. I never said they completely PREVENT it. ;)
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no.. its normal.. just dont have sex yet
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Hi there,
You keep asking this question... Please register an account so you will be sure to know when you get answers.
As for the question, well, 3 weeks seems a little soon, but what is more important is that you are very obviously not ready for this.
Anytime you feel like you are doing something wrong... you probably are.
Here is a promise: You give this boy what he wants, and he will be gone. There are thousands of girls your age on this site that had the exact same thing happen. Guy pressures them for sexual activity, gets it, and moves on to the next girl.
Don't fall for it. Wait until you find a person that respects you enough to wait when you aren't comfortable.
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your not a slut just make sure if you dont want to go really far then let him know. hes your boyfriend your not doing it to three guys within a week. and dont go bragging about it cuz people will say what they please.
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he's your boyfriend. it doesnt make you a slut. you being a slut means you'd be sleeping around and doing that stuff with TONS of guys.
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DIDNT YOU JUST ASK THIS I TOLD YOU YOU ARE NOT A SLUT YOU ARE A NORMAL TEEN!!!!!! ITS OK I DO STUFF ALL THE TIME TO... look sorry you made me angry no you arent a slut i promise, im sorry
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