Additional info, added Sunday July 25 2010, 11:12 am: ...easier said than done nonameboy70
Thanks musicissoul301. Already tried it, which worked. Just gotta work on some other things. You were helpful.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? staceyxlove answered Monday July 26 2010, 10:29 am: you're probably told this all the time, but time heals it :) i'm pretty sure everyone has been in a position like you, where they think they won't ever be able to get over their ex, but it happens eventually, and you'll feel ten times better than you did before.
the worst things to do:
- sit and think about your ex (what he's up to, asking his friends about him, looking at old pictures - you can do this but when your ready to!)
- try and win him back (will not always work)
- spy on him (some people do it!!)
best things to do:
- spend more time with your friends and family (they'll take your mind off your ex to a degree)
- meet new people (this is a great tip! it boosts your confidence and you're having fun at the same time)
- find a new hobby (sports, dancing, arts - whatever you want! it will take your mind off it)
personally I would just say to enjoy yourself... do whatever makes you feel good. I know that when I split up with my ex, going to the gym and getting fit really helped me because I met new people and gained confidence - although this doesn't always work for everyone! think of 5 things (or 3 whatever suits you) that you've always really wanted to do, such as visit somewhere you've always really wanted to go... it will make you so much happy when you have achieved your wishes! good luck and I hope I helped :) [ staceyxlove's advice column | Ask staceyxlove A Question ]
musicissoul301 answered Wednesday July 21 2010, 2:58 am: Yeah, dont even attemt what nonameboy70 said, it doesn't work. What I do is I start looking at other people and eventually i just forget that i liked the other person. Its different for everyone so this may or may not work for you, but it works for me.
Hope I helped
-musicissoul301 13(m) [ musicissoul301's advice column | Ask musicissoul301 A Question ]
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