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Follow my brain or heart
There are these two guys both of them recently broke up with their girlfriends. One of the let's let's call him b I have liked for a while and I thought he seemed interested. Now though I think I am wrong he told me right now he dosnt want a gf but he didn't tell me he dosnt like me. Yet he still fliers so much with me. Goes to where I am before class and talks to me when Im not around his ex he walks with me. I really have feels for b. My heart says to go to him but my brain says no that he will only hurt me. Then there is guy c. He seems interested in me. Since he broke up with his gf he sits with me at lunch. He texts me sometimes and gangs out with my before school and whenever I see him. My brain tells me to go for him he is a really sweet guy but my heart isn't their. It's thinking about guy b. I'm so confused and what sucks even more is that all my friends hate guy b because his ex is one of my close friends and they are upset about the break up. Idk they are wired like that. On the other hand they see guy c as a cool friend. Ugh I need help what would you do?
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For guy c, just don't even bother. If he just had a break up and he is already chasing another girl, obviosly showing he didn't care about her, how do you think he will feel about you? Plus you even said that your heart isn't for him! If your heart isn't there then it's not true. When it comes to love and relationships, I say to follow your heart, not your head. Your heart obviosly wants b, but b is just not ready for another girlfriend, that I think shows he was one for the relationship, unlike c who didn't care. I say that you wait for b to recover and then ask him. Also help b recover to get closer to him and build a stronger relationship. Since b is your best friend's ex then you should prabably talk to your best friend about it. And don't think about what others think just think about how you feel, would you rather feel bad and go out with c to look cool, or do you want to be happy with b and tell others that they should just go and fix their problems and not worry about yours.
Hope I helped!
-musicissoul301 13(m)
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If your real close to guy b's gf, and consider her a close friend. You need to talk to her about going out with him. Never lose a good gf for some boy, haha not right.You said for yourself that he doesn't even want a girlfriend right now so.... And for guy c dont even try with him. If your hearts not in it why bother. You would just be blocking another girl who really does like him.
Lillian
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