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My boyfriend wants variety.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for three months. We have a great relationship, full of trust and open communication. I feel like we are perfect for each other because we both agree we can be our real selves around each other so perfectly.
He and I kiss, cuddle, and hug all the time. He wants to have a more of variety when we see each other. I sit in his lap and stuff but nothing really sexual. He and I don't want to go that far. He is more experienced with kissing, but I don't desire to french kiss. I want to satisfy him more. I love to kiss and cuddle but I want some more variety without being so shy! I press my body against him but that's the only really sexual thing I do. He doesn't respond as much as I think he will.
I need some tips and techniques!
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Your boyfriend might feel right now that you two aren't being intimate, even though you show affection. It's your choice if you don't want to go further, but the majority of teenage guys want more. They're just naturally more sexual!
If you two are very open, discuss how far you want to go and what is appropriate. Ask him what he wants, and maybe you can oblige in a few ways.
You can try things like sucking and nibbling on his ear, my boyfriend really loves that. Lick a spot on his neck and breathe on it, that will turn him on for sure. Gentle kisses on his neck don't have to be overtly sexual or going too far.
Don't knock french kissing til you try it! You can start gentle and sensual, and work your way up if you feel like it. Lick his lips, slip your tongue in his mouth and play with his, or let his tongue do the work.
Stroke the back of his neck gently and play with his hair. This can also be hot.
When you press your body against him, 'casually' gring your pelvis against his. You can make it seem like an accident if you want to.
Just play around and let things happen naturally! You shouldn't have to force it. And only do what you are comfortable with, your boyfriend will understand.
Good luck,
-Abby
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well if you two don't want to go that far how about you just run your fingers up his legs until you reach his stuff and you can rub him or kiss him on his neck actually kiss him all over until you find a spot that he loves the most
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