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Getting over him?
female 17,
how do i get over my ex boyfriend? i"m in love with him but i've had enough of him he has played me lied to me cheat on me abuse me (emotionally) and I'm tired of being his rebound when we are together just the two of us he makes me feel so good and says all the right things and it just makes me feel so good but then when he gets in front of people he lies and doesnt even act like we mess around when he knows that we do. and on facebook i like his status and it said would he kiss me and he said NO shaking my head because the say before we were together and we kissed his is so fake and i just want all this to end i have to cut him off and forget about him but its so hard what do i do? if i continue to be his friend like we are now i know that i'm still going to mess around with him and i dont want to anymore because i know that i'm only going to hurt myself..we have a class together too which makes it harder. and my EX best friend flirts with him knowing that i went out with him.
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it's really good and a start that you realise if you keep in contact with him you're only gonna get hurt you need to keep reminding yourself that he hurt you sweetheart, the only way you're going to forget about him is if you move on or you start hating him he's just using you and you know that, he wants to mess around with you without being tied to a relationship he's a total dolt and doesn't deserve you and you sure as hell don't deserve to be treated this way, remember that you have to respect yourself and your pride by staying away from him, this means lose all contact with him facebbok, texts, phonecalls etc. he'll eventually get the point but if he doesn't it's best that you tell him that you're not here to be messed with and you've had enough of his shit, do the right thing hun theres someone better out there waiting to find you!
best of luck
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you need to put as much distance as you can between you as possible. I have been in this situation, and its just not good. You know the answer to your own questions sweetie, you know what's best for you, you just have to be willing to do it for yourself. He doesn't treat you the way you should be treated and he is acting the way he is and has, so you should stop talking to him in general. You are honestly not losing anything in the long run. And your ex best friend isn't important let her do her...because karma is a B*TCH and obviously she is your EX best friend, just as he is your EX boyfriend. BOTH in the PAST so leave em that way. thats the best you can do.
hope this helped:D
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