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feel more feminine
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 3:38 pm
hi. im 19 and a female.
i am a goodlooking girl (not to be cocky) ive been with a lot of guys, not a crazy amount but a good amount.
i dont get any guy i want but i manage.
however my issue is i have trouble feeling sexy and feminine.
i dont look manly or anything like that but i feel so butch sometimes.
when im with a guy i find it so hard to let go.
it never feels smooth when im sexual with a guy. i feel so strained and stiff.
i never moan or let guys do things to me really because i feel so uncomfortable.
I HATE THIS. its not fair that i can't feel sexy and i can't let go during sex and yell at the top of my lungs and be in control and be sexual.
i dr...
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male anatomy
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 3:26 pm
why does my boyfriend have such a huge penis when he gets hard?
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mixed signals on 1st date- salvagable?
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 2:49 pm
A man I worked with about 5 years ago returned to the state where I live and looked me up on the web. We previously had verbalized mutual attraction but the timing and circumstances were not right for us to connect then. We have had phone contact which has been flirtatious, (but not sexual) and met up last Tuesday night for coffee and a walk on the beach. (He had offered dinner, but I wanted to keep it casual) I KNOW I sent mixed messages because I was nervous and afraid of rejection. He asked when he could see me again and mentioned a couple activities/events. I was an ass and said "well, how do you think it went tonight?" UGH!! He say he thought it went well. Later he mentioned going to a b-ball game and I said "like buddie...
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heartache-off and on
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 1:54 pm
My boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me on tuesday and I haven't been doing too well..
He actually did it for reasons I can understand. He has had a drug problem and been trying to get a hold of it and he also feels like hes not going anywhere in life and since im in college, he is "holding me down". He told me he wanted to better himself and that one day he wanted to make it work between us again because he really loves me and could see himself spending the rest of his life with me. I was crying a lot and stayed with me for about an hour just trying to comfort me. but eventually he left and of course I was still crying. He was up in my town visiting me and said he was going home (this was on tues) but this morni...
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i want my ex back
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 1:35 pm
Well, we both are in high school and he broke up with me saying "he needed time to get things in his life together". Like he's getting a job and his friends want to hang out and managing a girl friend is hard right now. But he also said "I still like you and if this doesn't work out again then I do want to be friends and you to be in my life". So I take that as he's willing to give it a shot again down the road? So it's been 2 weeks since we broke up and I've had all the opportunities in the world to hook up with other guys but I just don't! Because I don't want to have to admit them and because I want him to the be last guy I ever kissed/other things with. I'm not looking for any other guy but him and I don't want to ge...
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Awkward moments in my life???
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 1:27 pm
Hi I'm 15 f and I'm all bout the awkward moments in my life I hate them and yet they allways happen.
So I'm on jv softball team for my school and most of the jv girls and I went to go watch varsity bc we were off ( on Thursday) and we were on the bleachers cheering for varsity I was on the middle part of bleachers on the end and then this guy says " pretty cold isn't it?" and like none of the girls respond to him and I didn't think he was talking to me but he kept saying it and finally This girl on our team was like hi Tom ands he said yeah it is and he's like oh I'm not cold bc I'm so hot haha and he kept saying jokes kida like that and the one girl was like I'm Miranda that's Jamie (<<< me) and like he was jokin...
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My boyfriend keeps hurting me and i don't know what to do??
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 11:44 am
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, he has had a really horrible up bringing in an abbusive home when he was a kid, we currently live together and i have recently found out I am pregnant.
He gets angry all the time, over the smallest things, like loosing a game of fifa or something, when he does get angry he always punches the walls, doors or breaks things but if i say something he doesn't like or tell him to do something i get hit, punched, kicked and i have almost lost the baby twice already because he has hit me in the stomach. I feel like i need him to be independent though, and he tells me to get out of the house all the time, and tells me i won't get anything in the flat/car etc. he calls me names all the...
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im stuck :(
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 11:19 am
So i have dated this boy for 3 months, until he went to Florida, and texted me breaking up with me. When he got back he got another girlfriend right away. He started texting me "i love you, i miss you" and songs, and quotes, anything sweet. But i didnt want any of that, i was trying to get over him. But then one day he texted me telling me to f off, and to stop texting him, when i never did. I showed his new girlfriend the texts, and she started crying. This has been a pattern with him, he's done this to basically all of his girlfriends. I feel cheated, and unloved. And i honestly have no idea what to do with myself, im in desperate need of help :(
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Crazy ex-girlfriend
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 10:46 am
so i'm going out with this boy and he has a stalker ex girlfriend that doesn't stop calling him baby and babe she is doing whatever it takes to break us up even get my best friend into it. what do i do?
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Is he cheating?
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 10:15 am
My boyfriend chats with this other girl while we are talking and I'm not stupid I can see they are talking but he doesn't tell me. It feels like a knife in my stomach and I start shaking so I end up telling him good night and going to bed where I lay awake for hours crying. Now I know that is probably pathetic crying over a guy and all. But this is stupid. Why can't he just be honest with me and TELL me that he is talking to this girl or something. I hate her already. I've already talked to him about it last time when he said I was over reacting and I asked him to PLEASE tell me if he talking to her instead of letting me FIGURE IT OUT. Idk what to say to him today, I'm .... in a very bad mood.... should I avoid him or not... this is so mess...
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am i his mystery girl?
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 1:41 am
im 18 female and hes 19 male.
So over the last 5 months me and this guy grew close very very quickly. we're best friends but i also have really strong feelings for him, and well i dont know if im the 'mystery girl' he likes. ive had a few indications that maybe i could be this mystery girl he likes...and then sometimes he says really confusing things that makes me think otherwise...
Some of the indications ive had that perhaps i am his mystery girl are:
- he once answered on a social site where you can ask people questions anonymously (great for getting info out of people) and someone asked him why he was feeling only just okay. he wrote this massive paragraph about how he likes this girl but he doesnt...
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Was I out of line?? What do I do now??
Posted Saturday April 16 2011, 12:41 am
So tonight one of my guy friends (weve been tight for awhile) was being a huge a$$ to me. We were at a party and he wanted to dance with me, which was totally fine and all but then he started getting a little too handsy and a little too into it and I have a boyfriend so I wasn't too comfortable with it, nor do I like him like that. I told him I was thirsty, and done dancing and I went off to go find my bf. My friend followed me, grabbed my wrist and pulled me (not in like a vioent way) up to him. But then he started whispering in my ear about how much he wanted me and that we should go to his car and I was stunned. I have NEVER led him on or EVER given him that kind of impression. Yes, he was a little bit under the influence but this party...
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Am I Reading The Signs Wrong?! HELP PLEASE!!!!
Posted Friday April 15 2011, 10:50 pm
Ok, so im 15/f and im having issues with this guy I know (no names). So he moved here like a year and a half ago, and quickly joined my group of friends. We were friends for a while and i really started to like him, well as it turned out so did my best friend. She told me she was going to ask him out and being the stupid girl i am thinking i had no chance with him said go for it. Well they dated for three months (which killed me!!!!) and broke up. Me and him then went back to being tight, like spandex.
We would meet up every day and talk none stop, mainly about how much he missed my best friend. Me once again being the stupid person thinking i had to be a good friend put my feelings aside and listen to him about her and trie...
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Why do I care so much still?
Posted Friday April 15 2011, 8:22 pm
Even though me and my ex-boyfriend have stopped talking ever since our breakup in March, and I'm dating someone else, I still have this weird energy when I am around him.
He broke up with me because I was depressing him, but he promised me he would still be my friend and be there for me. It was a really rather caring breakup. For a while, we were friends, laughing and joking and being just like we were. I felt very happy at first, but then, it just turned so sour. My feelings for him began to develop again. I warned him about it, too. But he insisted we be friends. I stayed his friend, and tried to be short and curt with texts and phone calls, so my emotional attachment would fade. And yes, eventually it did, but not without...
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All of a sudden I just stopped wanting him. I am so confused, please help!
Posted Friday April 15 2011, 4:55 pm
I'm a sophomore girl, fifteen years old. I dated a guy all through my freshman year, when I was fourteen and he was sixteen, a sophomore at the time. We'll call him Matt. Matt and I started off and for the first six months, things couldn't have been better. It wasn't until he started pressuring me to do stuff (sexually) that we started to fall apart. I know now that what he did was wrong because he used guilt and at one point physical power to get what he wanted. At the time though, I didn't see it. I was SO whipped by him, and SO clingy. I thought I would be nothing without him. (He was my first boyfriend, kiss, fingering, hj and bj). I was only clingy because I felt so attached to him from all the physical stuff and I was so scared to los...
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Was he thinking about me?
Posted Friday April 15 2011, 2:14 pm
20/f Joe -19
So me and Joe used to "talk" but then after about 3 months he blew up for no reason and said he couldn't do this anymore and didn't wanna talk to me. I didn't talk to him after that. This was in January. I left him alone, I'm not like a lot of girls who would of texted him saying i missed him and stuff. I had no contact with him.
Then about a month after (In Feb) he chats me on facebook asking how i was. It started off okay but then he basically turned into a douche again.
I didn't talk to him still after that. Then about two weeks ago he randomly texts me at like 11 at night on a Saturday saying "hey can we still be friends?" He was drinking but not to the point ...
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Posted Friday April 15 2011, 1:38 pm
when do you go through puberty
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i have a boyfriend and everyone i love and care about doesn't like him
Posted Friday April 15 2011, 1:33 pm
i have a boyfriend and we love eachother very much but i never told my parents and only some of my friends i trust know and if we even get to kiss we have to sneak.
i really need some help because i don't want to hurt the people i love. and i want to know if its worth all that trouble
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I'm okay with the way I look but it seems like no one else is...
Posted Thursday April 14 2011, 10:47 pm
Hey! I just have a question on your guys's opinion. And also some advice. I'm sixteen, and a girl. I am 5'4 and 105 pounds. I wear size 7 shoes. In your opinion would you say that's very small...? It seems like people (guys in particular) always make a big deal about how "little" I am. And personally, I don't think I'm that small, I'd say average right? I mean I am thin and I'm not what you'd call strong per say but yeah... It does bother me a little, the hype some people make about it. Like my guy friends were giving me shit saying I shouldn't play powderpuff this weekend (its like, one day where girls from schools in the area get a team together in their school and play other schools in flag football) because I wouldn't be any h...
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The 1 guy I like Does not like me
Posted Thursday April 14 2011, 9:34 pm
There is this new kid this year I like. I found out I cannot stop thinking about him. I can tell he doesn't like me, but when I am in the same class as him, I feel like flying. Today he got hurt in P.E. and I hurt and felt like bawling. Is it love? If so, please tell me how to get him to like me.
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