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Am I Reading The Signs Wrong?! HELP PLEASE!!!!
Ok, so im 15/f and im having issues with this guy I know (no names). So he moved here like a year and a half ago, and quickly joined my group of friends. We were friends for a while and i really started to like him, well as it turned out so did my best friend. She told me she was going to ask him out and being the stupid girl i am thinking i had no chance with him said go for it. Well they dated for three months (which killed me!!!!) and broke up. Me and him then went back to being tight, like spandex.
We would meet up every day and talk none stop, mainly about how much he missed my best friend. Me once again being the stupid person thinking i had to be a good friend put my feelings aside and listen to him about her and tried to get them back together. That didnt work and he finally got over it.
So for the past six or seven months we have been even closer. We talk non-stop and txt to the early hours of the morning. Im confused though because he is always wanting to be with me (like hanging out and teams for school), he is always hugging me, making me laugh, ill catch him looking at me and then we both look away.
My question is "Does he like me? Did I miss my chance with him? Is there a chance for "US" or am I making the whole thing up in my head? I am seriously confused and need help to figure out what my next move is. Can anyone please help me?
PS: I dont want answers saying im too young! I know i am to young to be worry about these things but unless I know whether or not something can happen between me and him I am STUCK!Thank you for any advice given.
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Hi,
It sounds like you guys are great for each other, and I don't think you have missed your chance. I hung out with a guy so often and we both liked each other but didn't do anything for about 1 and a half years, until we finally kissed, and now he is my husband!
My advice is to date each other, but to hold off for sex till you are married because it is way better then and has way more meaning.
Think of your virginity like the most special present you could give anyone in the world. Best to give it to your husband who you are going to be with your whole life, rather than someone who you feel lots of love/lust for, but then without you thinking it could ever happen, you break up, and he becomes some guy in your past.
Sometimes having a guy as your best friend for ages before you dated is the best thing you could do, as it really improves your relationship as you know more about him, and even like each other through ups and downs.
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