There is this new kid this year I like. I found out I cannot stop thinking about him. I can tell he doesn't like me, but when I am in the same class as him, I feel like flying. Today he got hurt in P.E. and I hurt and felt like bawling. Is it love? If so, please tell me how to get him to like me.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cherokee answered Sunday April 24 2011, 2:50 am: No you're not in love haha you are just infatuated with him. This is typical for girls I'm pretty sure every girl has went through this stage. If you truly want to find out if he likes you , you can ask him personally to be for sure. If he doesn't like you just move on don't force anyone to like you either he will or he won't. Plus, I'm pretty sure it's many more guys that feel the same way about you, and you just don't know it yet. So don't miss your chances with them by letting a guy who might not be interested get you all caught up in la la land. Good Luck [ Cherokee's advice column | Ask Cherokee A Question ]
LatinaAdvice answered Friday April 15 2011, 5:01 pm: If he likes you, he would like you for who you are. Be yourself :)
Start off with a friendship but don't get so clingy because he makes the guy annoyed, don't seem desperate for him ! Make yourself like a play hard to get type of girl ... talk about things and see what things you have in common , see what kind of guy he is :)
If he compliments you its a nice start you could do the same but not as much ... don't be so flirty because it makes the guy think your easy and flirty girls arn't always nice.
You have a crush not love, love takes time to be formed.. you have to get to know the person first before you fall for him. Personality always captures the heart and looks the eye.
nikz answered Friday April 15 2011, 11:38 am: you said that he got hurt in P.E so if he is still hurt then you should tend to him and show him that you care because guys love TLC this will slowly bring you together
i don't think that you love it's probably infatuation, the only you'll know for certain that he doesn't like you is if he tells you that he doesn't so why not ask him or get a friend to ask him but you should definately speak to him more often and be cool with him guys like girls that are confident
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