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Awkward moments in my life???
Hi I'm 15 f and I'm all bout the awkward moments in my life I hate them and yet they allways happen.
So I'm on jv softball team for my school and most of the jv girls and I went to go watch varsity bc we were off ( on Thursday) and we were on the bleachers cheering for varsity I was on the middle part of bleachers on the end and then this guy says " pretty cold isn't it?" and like none of the girls respond to him and I didn't think he was talking to me but he kept saying it and finally This girl on our team was like hi Tom ands he said yeah it is and he's like oh I'm not cold bc I'm so hot haha and he kept saying jokes kida like that and the one girl was like I'm Miranda that's Jamie (<<< me) and like he was joking around but we had to be quiet when our coach was at 3rd base or we would have to run if he heard us talking to some person and than I found out he's 14 in 8 th grade andhes the brother to this other girl on varsity but he was texting a girl there on jv bc they knew each other and he said I was hot like it boosted up my self a steam bc I just got over this guy I liked for about 5-6 months and that just made me feel great haha so my point is I added him as a friend on fb on firday( night) and I regret it bc should I have waited and the other girls on the softball team r gonna see that and ask me if he asked me to be friends what am I going to say bc I know I'll probally see him again at a varsity game like if I lie it could ten around on me and if I tell the truth I'll feel like a looser/ creep what should I do like I'm a very regretful person:/
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If he asks you, smile and in a friendly confident way, say 'yeah I added you because you seemed really nice'. And don't say anymore than that.
It will boost his confidence, and you will seem attractive, because you haven't acted like you think what you did was siller or that you think you are a loser.
Confident happy girls are attractive.
If your (girl) friends ask if you put him on, say that you just did it because you think he is nice.
Again, your confidence here is important, because it is easier for girls to pick on people who are not confident.
If they hassle you about it, don't say too much.
Saying a lot makes things worse.
Just say that you wanted to put him on so you did, because you think he is nice.
Here's the trick. Remember this because it can help you throughout your WHOLE life:
If you say the exact same thing over and over, people will give up picking on your, or arguing with you, because they can see that you mean what you say, and they get bored.
So, if they hassle you again about it, but with a different comment, you say that you wanted to put him on there because you think he was nice.
If they hassle you again, saying that he won't like you, you say that you wanted to put him on there because you think he was nice.
If they then say, that he has a girlfriend now, you say that you wanted to put him on there because you think he was nice.
Get it?
They will seriously get sick of trying to pick on you and they will see that you mean what you say, so they will stop.
I hope it goes well.
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