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i have a boyfriend and everyone i love and care about doesn't like him
i have a boyfriend and we love eachother very much but i never told my parents and only some of my friends i trust know and if we even get to kiss we have to sneak.
i really need some help because i don't want to hurt the people i love. and i want to know if its worth all that trouble
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I think that you should tell every one. It is not a proper relationship if it is hidden. I think that you should follow your heart, listen to it. Is it telling you to dump him? Or is it telling you to tell every one? Or is it telling it to keep it secret? I had one girl once who send me an email. She said that she kept a relationship a secret for one whole year. She told me that she feels sad because she can't tell anyone about it at the risk of finding out. After one year and two months, her boyfriend dumped her because he didn't like the secrecy. But the worse is, that he send an email to her email that her parent see, so when her mom read it she got mad for not telling them. Now, her family doesn't trust her, and her friends. She lost all of that just to one boy. In my opinion a relationship is a relation ship that does not have to be kept secret from anyone. Otherwise, what is the point. I know it is hard to tell your parents, but if you need any advice on how to tell your parents, email me. If you want any more advice, please email me on AskAliceMadisson@hotmail.com. If you don't trust that I give professional advice, please go to my temporary website to see to examples of advice I gave to people, which helped them. My website is www.askalicemadisson.webstarts.com
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Usually I tell everyone to do whatever makes you happy but truthfully, will you be happy losing your friends and family over one guy? I know the bad boys always seem like the fun ones but the fun only lasts for a while. You should be proud to be with your bf and be able to take him around everyone else that loves you. I know it's a tough choice when you think that he's truly the one for you but chances are, he'll break your heart and you'll be single again in the future. I hope this helps and good luck.
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i have the same problem. my boyfriend is 4 yrs older and happens to be my older sisters ex. im really in love but nobody noes and i have to sneak to do anything...even hug. my advice is to stay with him till you get older and then tell everyone that you dont care what they think and that if they really cared they would let you be. when you have love nothing else matters especially when its people who are jerks cuz u have love and they dont. :) stick in their and fight for what you love and believe in you will be fine best wishes
xoxo
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Right .. honestly if these people you call your friends cared about you and your happines they wouldn't care who your with :) I had the same problem but with my mum she disliked my ex boyfriend so much but it came to a point where i couldn't take it anymore & i confronted her.. I told her how i felt about him and how happt I was with him.
You need to realise things babe! Your parents had a chance when they were young , now its your turn to live it ... if your happy then don't end it. Don't let your friends take that opportunity from you its not worth it because if you do at the end of the day your the one whos gonna be hurting yourself only. Listen sorry if i sound a bit erm harsh but it you both loved each other you wouldn't care what people thought especially your friends who come and go , real friends are there for you they support you and stand by your feelings yet they don't seem to be doing that right? Talk to them first don't make any harsh choices. You both seem to have a healthy relationship but its going to come to the point where he is gonna get fed up of everythingg ! Im sure you dont want him walking away right? You dont wanna hurt the people you love but fact is the people you love are hurting you and you aint realising it... they should respect who your with. Unless the guy your with has done wrong things but if thats not the case I think you should stand up to your parents and family both of you. Makes you seem more mature ! and it would make your relationship stronger cause your fighting for something you believe in. Good luck babe :) hope i could help.
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