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Was he thinking about me?
20/f Joe -19
So me and Joe used to "talk" but then after about 3 months he blew up for no reason and said he couldn't do this anymore and didn't wanna talk to me. I didn't talk to him after that. This was in January. I left him alone, I'm not like a lot of girls who would of texted him saying i missed him and stuff. I had no contact with him.
Then about a month after (In Feb) he chats me on facebook asking how i was. It started off okay but then he basically turned into a douche again.
I didn't talk to him still after that. Then about two weeks ago he randomly texts me at like 11 at night on a Saturday saying "hey can we still be friends?" He was drinking but not to the point where he was drunk or anything. He went on to apologize (twice actually) for being a jerk. Then we just talked about stuff until 4 in the morning.
The thing i'm wondering is, do you think he was thinking about me or what?? I didn't talk to him for like a month or two after he chatted me on facebook. I never contacted him since he blew up on me in January. I thought it was random how he texted me, but I won't lie I was kind of happy. All i wanted from him was an apology and he gave me one. He said sorry twice actually.
I was just thinking, maybe he was thinking about me this whole time?? Was it bothering him that I wasn't texting him like i miss you and stuff?? I don't know, what do you guys think??
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Hi,
I have heard of guys doing this when they are drunk and then get lonely.
Don't take him back. Him blowing up at you is a warning bell of a guy with an anger problem.
They have this pattern where they are nice, then get irritable, then blow up, then apologize, and then it starts all over and repeats itself over and over and over again.
Don't go there.
He may be interested in you, but you could actually find and marry a guy who will NEVER do that to you, and trust me, it will make you feel way more secure in your relationship and way more loved. With a good guy you never have questions like the ones you are having now.
He probably wasn't thinking about you. Just about himself.
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You could of crossed his mind from time to time, Do you know anything about this guy? Does he have a girlfriend...I'm just asking only because he's blown you off twice before. You didn't really explain the relationship you two had before his blow out.
If you think he is sorry and sincere then go for it, However just remember you said he was drinking. Although he may not of been drunk at the time he still had a little alcohol in him and that doesn't mean he wasn't "relaxed" It's up too you but if you do take it slow, Don't be pushy or forward. Make sure he isn't bullshitting his way into leaving you for the third time. If he does it again then leave him for good, It would then be obvious he is just playing games.
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